(Closed) Help with sister-in-law

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I would ask your mom to take the dress over there and have her try it on.  You still have some time to get it altered.  Don’t stress just yet. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Can you have your brother talk to her?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Can you call and speak to your niece directly, or send her a letter about how excited you are that she is going to be in your wedding?

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I am sorry you are so upset. But I think stepping back and taking a breather would be a good idea.

I truly don’t think you want to cancel your wedding to the man you love becuase of issues with a sister in law and niece. I mean, the wedding is about you two, and everyone else is just bonus!!! so, if the niece can’t be involved, so be it. at the end of the day, you will still be married to the man you love.

I know how stressful wedding planing gets and how much emotions and tears flow easily, but really, think about the fact that you wanted to marry this man.  No matter how much family drama is involved, that is the most important thing. Don’t punish your relationship because of your sister.

And, unfortunately, going to court won’t get you any visitations rights.  Only parents (and very rarely, grandparents) get visitation rights via court. And going to court would really damage your relationship with your niece’s mother.  So sorry you are going through this!

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