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Help! Wording for Mixed (up!) family

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    MoSnow    9/6/09   Colorado - Wyoming

    Hello ladies-

    I need your help with invitation wording. It's kind of a mess and the helpful people at The Knot et all aren't really being all that helpful. I knew the bees would know though. 

    My fiance's and my parents are hosting the event equally, however, my parents are split so there are three sets of parents that need to be included on the invites. We are putting all three sets, I just don't know who should go first. 

    What I assume it might be would be: 

    Mr. And Mrs. SnowStepdad

     Mr. SnowDad

    and Mrs. and Mr. fianceDad

    cordially blah blah blah... 

    is that how it should go? My mom, then my dad, then his parents, or are there other ways? And is it Mr. and Mrs. So-and-so or Mrs. and Mr. So-and-so? 

    Also: what wording are you using for the "invite you" part? What do you recommend? 

    Thanks!

     

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    yorkie    June 13, 2009   Miami, FL

    Mo, I think that j_nicolle's recent post may help.

    My parents are divorced and so are Smarty's parents.  This is what we've decided to go with, and ran it by all of the parents for safe measure:

    Mrs. Crafty's Mom
    Mr. Crafty's Dad
    invite you to share in the joy
    at the marriage of their daughter

    Craftypants
    to
    Smartypants

    son of
    Mrs. Smarty's Mom
    Mr. Smarty's Dad

    I've read that if the parents are divorced, the mother is listed before the father and on a separate line.  This applies to whether she has remarried or not.  If you are including your stepfather, it would read just as you wrote (Mr. and Mrs. SnowStepdad, on the first line).

    Good luck!  :o)

     
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    MoSnow    9/6/09   Colorado - Wyoming

    Thanks Crafty Pants! How confusing!

     
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    yorkie    June 13, 2009   Miami, FL

    Families... you gotta love 'em!  :o)

     
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    sc8493    April 18, 2009  

    I don't know about the first part, but on the last part.....

    usually people use 'request your presents' or 'request the honour of your presents', 'invite you to join us'

    Those seem to be the most common ones. I used the second one. Hope its some help!

    You can also google 'wedding invitation wording' then you can select a site that have free samples of wedding invitation wording.

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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    Because my folks are divorced...I am choosing to take the easy way out in terms of choosing the order of names. I just started the invite as

    Together with thier familes...and then

    jone doe and jane doe invite you to........

     

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