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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    I am finding tons of templates for ceremony programs, but they are not specific enough for me. I want to know exactly what prayers are said during the mass and everything. The ones I see just say Processional, Greeting, Opening Prayer..etc (but I'm finding out there is a penitential rite and gloria in between there as well). Does anyone have  FULL text I can write mines from? Pleeeeeeaseee!

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    I got my template from the "Together for Life" book that we chose our readings from.  I don't think there was a Penitential Rite or Gloria in there.  I chose to omit the text for the Opening Prayer and the Nuptial Blessing and the Lord's Prayer, because of space constraints.  I also didn't think that was something people necessarily needed to follow along with the text.  We're not having a full mass but here is my template:

    Prelude:

    Prelude..........Bach, Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring

    Seating of the Grandmothers and Mothers

    (Please Stand)


    Entrance Rite:

    Processional............Clarke, Trumpet Voluntary

    Greeting

    Opening Prayer (we omitted the exact text here)

     

    Liturgy of the Word:

    First Reading: Tobit 8:4B-8 (Please Sit)

    Read by: XXXX - Friend of the Bride

    (reading text spelled out exactly as in "T4L"

    The Word of the Lord.

    Response: Thanks be to God

     

    Responsorial Psalm 33: "The Goodness of the Lord."

    Response: The Earth is full of the Goodness of the Lord

     

    Second Reading: 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8A

    Read by: XXXX - Friend of the Groom

    (reading text spelled out exactly)

    The Word of the Lord

    Response: Thanks be to God

     

    Gospel Acclamation: "Celtic Alleluia"

    (Please stand and join the cantor on the refrain)

     

    Gospel: Matthew 7:21,24-29

    Read by: Father XXXX

    (Gospel reading went here)

    The Gospel of the Lord.

    Response: Praise to you Lord, Jesus Christ.

     

    Homily (Please sit)

     

    The Rite of Marriage

    Introductory Address

    Statement of Intentions (PLease stand)

    Consent and Exchange of Vows

    Blessing and Exchange of Rings

    Prayers of the Faithful

    (Response: Lord, hear our prayer)

    Nuptial Blessing (Response: Amen)

     

    Concluding Rite

    The Lord's Prayer (Response: Amen)

    Final Blessing (Response: Amen)

    Recessional.......Beethoven "Hymn of Joy"

     
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    JoJo Bananas    August 21, 2010   Santa Cruz, CA

    Ask your church liturgist if they have a book you can borrow.  For most of the readings and prayers there are a few different options.

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    thanks @sboston06 ...I too have the Together for Life book, but I still feel like I need help with it, as I don't think it fully lists what goes on.

    @Ms. Figales - I'll check those links out..thanks!

     
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    GoodmorningBmore    July 9, 2011  

    My FH's brother got married in a Catholic ceremony and the priest already had the order picked out. I'm sure your priest could give you a suggestion on readings/order of ceremony.

     
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    glammy    February 25, 2011  

    @luli29 - I have a full program/mass file, it's from my sister's wedding, however Im from overseas so maybe yours will be a little different. I could send you the Word file in case youre interested. Message me your email add or something if youre interested.

     
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    jedeve    August 14, 2010   Montana

    Okay, I had SUCH a hard time trying to do this too! I wanted one with all the responses so that people who weren't Catholic didn't feel way out of place. I'm not sure mine is perfect because I pieced it together from a few resources. But here you go! Its from a Mac, so all the pretty formatting got lost in the exchange. They did look much better in person!

     
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    jedeve    August 14, 2010   Montana

    OH boo. It looks like its not going to work posting it like that. Just PM me and I can send it to you.

     
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    PinkPinstripes    November 2011   Boston, MA

    My priest gave me a little "workbook" with all the info inside...with little spaces where we need to pick our readings. Maybe your chuch has one you can borrow? Usually the music person has something  that is very detailed.

     
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    cheert16    October 23, 2010   Massachusetts

    Ahhh!! So glad someone else is having this issue!!!

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    www.catholicbrides.com

    Go, register, and pretend like you're putting a full mass together. It will walk you through the ENTIRE thing! Just, don't send it to them or "finish" unless you want them to print it... etc...

     
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    Ladytron    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    Our priest was a HUGE help in editing the program once we had the bare bones together. He was very firm on what should/should not be included, so I would keep in mind that any format you create should probably get the seal of approval from your priest before you begin printing.

    Below is our program, hope this helps! (sorry for any wonky formatting)

    The Wedding Celebration Uniting Marie Claire & Warren Patrick

    Date, Church, Location

    Prelude

    Music for Trumpet and Organ

     

    Processionals

    Trumpet Tune • Purcell

     

    Trumpet Voluntary • Clarke

     

     

    INTRODUCTORY RITE

     

     

    Greetings

     

     

    Opening Prayer

     

     

     

    LITURGY OF THE WORD

     

    First Reading

    Thanks be to God.

    Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

     

     

    Psalm Response

    Psalm 103:1-2, 8, 13, 17-18

    Refrain: The Lord is kind and merciful.

     

    Second Reading

    Thanks be to God.

    Romans 12:1-2, 9-18

     

     

    Gospel Acclamation

    Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.

     

     

    Gospel

    Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.

    John 15:9-12

     

     

    Homily

     

     

     
     
     

     

     

     

    RITE OF MARRIAGE

     

    Statement of Intentions

     

    Consent and Exchange of Vows

     

    Blessing and Exchange of Rings

     

     

     

     

     

    LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

     

     

    Offertory

    Let the Bright Seraphim • Handel

     

     

     

     

    Sanctus

     

     

    Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might,

    Heaven and earth are full of your glory. Hosanna in the highest.

    Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.

    Hosanna in the highest. 

     

     

    Memorial Acclamation

     

    Christ has died. Christ is risen. Christ will come again.

     

     

    Great Amen

    Amen, Amen, Amen. 

     

     

     
     
     
     

     

     

     

    The Lord's Prayer

     

    Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name;

    Thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

    Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses,

    As we forgive those who trespass against us;

    And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  

     

    Nuptial Blessing

     

    Sign of Peace 

    You are invited to exchange a sign of peace with one another,

    usually done by shaking hands while saying “Peace be with you.”

     

    Agnus Dei

     

    Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world: have mercy on us.

    Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world: have mercy on us.

    Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world: grant us peace.

     

    Communion and Prayer

    Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring • Bach

     

     

    CONCLUDING RITE

     

    Final Blessing

     

     

    Recessional

    Rondeau • Mouret

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    If you want, PM me your email address and I can send you the 7 pages I have for our program so far, lol. 

     

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