Hens/Stag Party Deliema

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

It is absolutely absurd to expect anyone to pay that much money. I would never ever ask my friends to pay that much. I don’t think that it’s required that you go to all the parties to attend a wedding either. Maybe since you aren’t close they invited you because you had invited them to yours, but they won’t really be hurt if you don’t go? I can’t imagine many people wanting to go at those prices unless all their friends are super rich. I really hope someone has called them out on that.
I also don’t think your pregnancy is an “excuse” I think it’s perfectly okay not to go to something as wild and crazy as that when pregnant. I would hope it would be enough to say “I’m going through a difficult pregnancy and for the best health of the child my doctor has asked that I don’t do too much activity” or something along those lines. If they don’t understand things like pregnancy or financial stress than they might just be people that you don’t wnat in your lives regardless.

Post # 4
42157 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@kiwichick15:  People are never required to give a reason when they cannot attend a social function. “I’m sorry, but we are unable to attend. We hope you have a great time!”

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