(Closed) Here Comes the Stress!

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@inky_1:  one: breathe, two: give FI’s cousin some time, maybe she is busy or wants to make sure she can fully commit financially/timewise before accepting, three: I’d suggest to (for now anyways) continue planning as though you are paying for it… and then any help you get can be a pleasant surprise?… or maybe hold off until you get a better “read” off your dad.
It will all work out, promise!

Post # 5
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@inky_1:  don’t worry about it being dumb to ask her… he is FI’s cousin, I’m assuming maybe they are closer? If they are not close… maaaaybe it is a little weird. but hey, worst case scenario, tell her waht you told us, take her to coffee and say hey I know we’ve only met a few times but I think we got along well and could be good friends, I’d like tog et to know you better… don’t feel like you haev to answer right away. (I mean you have over a year so maybe work to build your friendship first…) IF she finds it weird. If not, hey more power to ya ๐Ÿ™‚

and that’s a good idea for your dad

Post # 7
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@inky_1:  who cares? she should be honored! Weddings are great, and whatever if she says no, her loss… right? don’t sweat the small stuff ๐Ÿ˜‰ the fun is only just  beginning lol

Post # 9
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@inky_1:  that’s one less worry for now ๐Ÿ™‚ hannnng in there!

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