- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
So over it. I need some advice.
Our friend, J had originally agreed to officiate our ceremony. About a month ago, he messages me on FACEBOOK saying that he was going to be moving to California and there was a good chance that he wouldn’t be able to do it and then he wouldn’t speak to my FI or me until about a week ago and can’t stop talking about how he can’t wait to do our ceremony.
During the time he wasnt speaking to us, we found 2 othe people that would want to do it. FI really wants J to do it, and kind of refuses to talk about it.
Is it fair to ask FI to ask him to step down? Or do I just suck it up and hope he doesn’t back out again or should I put my foot down on this?
I’m ready to call it off and elope. Grr.