heres a weird question?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
679 posts
Busy bee

ill have sex when im not in the mood because i know i will enjoy it once we start. if i waited for me to want it all the time we wouldnt have sex very much. but he is pretty convincing if he wants to.


sometimes if he goes down on and im not really in the mood ill just say lets just have sex. and hes usually ok with

Post # 4
1888 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Usually because even if I’m not in the mood when we start he knows what to do to get me in the mood very quickly.  Plus I’ve discovered that it works awesome for getting rid of headaches!

Post # 7
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

I will most of the time he wants to even if I’m not in the mood, but I get in the mood quickly!

Sex will always get rid of my headaches, too!

Post # 8
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I never tell my husband no. If I’m not feeling it and he is, I’ll get into it eventually 🙂

Post # 9
812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013 - Mansion House at the MD Zoo

My new years resolution is to say yes more. Not just to sex, but that’s a lot of it. I’ve also found that if we wait for when I’m in the mood we wait for way too long, but getting stuff started gets me going pretty quickly. I can’t remember a time when I regretted having sex with DH even when I didn’t feel like it.

Also I haven’t told him this, because I feel like if he had his way we’d never leave the house and would lose our jobs and be living on the street in a box and waste away to nothing from burning more calories than we consume, but in my head I know what’s up. 🙂


Post # 10
559 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I am actually the one with the higher sex drive here so its the other way around. there have been a couple times but I just get myself in the mood BC I know I’ll enjoy it.

Post # 11
373 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@marinewife4:  I’m never not in the mood and even if I wasn’t, I’m certain DH could get me there pretty quickly. And lucky for me, DH loves going down on me, because I love when he does it. I also love reciprocating 😉

Post # 12
564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I feel at time like our roles are reversed… he wants romance, snuggles and foreplay… I want to have sex, I want to get to the good stuff and not wait and tease.

We have very little time to ourselves when our 4 kids are finnally in their rooms and asleep!

Post # 14
4513 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Unless I’m sick then yeah I’ll do it even if I’m not in the mood. If I’m sick then he usually doesn’t even try. I’ve only ever turned him down twice in 12 years and both times I was dead tired.

Post # 15
8678 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

My husband and I have a rule: We never deny one another sex unless we’re in intense physical pain and/or missing body parts or organs. So, yes. We’ll have sex even if the other partner really doesn’t feel like it.

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