(Closed) He’s Driving me batty!!!

posted 8 years ago in October 2010
Post # 3
218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Oh yes.  Except my Fiance doesn’t want to help in the planning, he wants to leave it all up to me, because it’s “my” day and it’s his “gift” to me.  So then when I can’t make up my mind about..well…everything..He gets frustrated because I can’t decide!  Yeah, it’s irritating.  Just go with what you want.  That’s what I’m doing lol

Post # 4
7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Your Fiance sounds like me!  I’d been mentally stalking venues for years – when we finally started looking at ones – it started to be very clear there were certain elements that were ‘must haves’.  When we finally found ‘the one’ – I was very hesitant to make the leap, because I wasn’t sure what else ‘might’ be out there.  FI (and the hive!) was very helpful in helping me see that it really did have everything I needed/wanted, so it gave me confidence to move forward.

Maybe you could list what the important aspects of the venue are to each of you and then see how this place stacks up.  Maybe it will help Fiance see it’s time to stop looking.  Also, if you like one over the other, it would probably help him come to a consensus!

Post # 5
188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would select 3 venue options and then show him. Have him select his favorite of the three. that’s what we did and we are both happy with the decision.

Post # 6
1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My FH said that he trusts my style/taste and has just asked that I choose things that “don’t suck”. Hahaha….

What I have been doing is picking a few things and then ask his opinions rather than having him look at all the websites and books I have been reviewing. 

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