- Dr Pepper
- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
So this last weekend I started a new BC. Needless to say I was vomiting at 4 in the morning after starting the new pill. DH joked and said “well we are married now… You don’t have to take it” implying that we can start TTC. haha. Then he made another comment later on. I asked him directly “do you want a baby?”
DH “Well, kind of.” Then gives me the speech on how no one is ever really ready and if we wait until we are we’ll never have kids. This is the first I’ve heard of it. While hearing him want kids gives me butterflys in my stomach (good ones!) and I really would love to have a baby now I just can’t justify it without owning a home (my goal before kids)
I can’t tell anyone because they will push me one way or the other but I had to talk to someone about how SHOCKED I am. So here I am. By the way, we always said we’d wait a year and buy a house. I’ve been having baby dreams (which I tell him about) so I wonder if my want has brushed off on him. I’m just a little blown over because I wasn’t expecting this talk for a while and while I knew he wanted them, full blown baby fever 3 months into marriage wasn’t what I thought would happen.
Any other bee’s going through this or been through it? Now I’m actually thinking about giving it a go… Stupid babies, being so cute and heartwarming…