Post # 1
I’ve always been the type of girl to dream about my wedding. Now my SO and I aren’t in a place in our lives where it would be practical to get married but lately he’s just been saying things that totally make me want it to happen now!
After thanksgiving there was a jewelry commercial on and i said that i wanted to get an aquamarine ring then he said “no, i’ll get that for you for engagement”. then a couple weeks ago we somehow got on the topic of weddings/proposals and he asks me exactly how I want to be proposed to! then today we were cuddling and he very sweetly held me tight and came out and said “i’m going to marry you someday.”
All this talk just makes me want it more, how frustrating! i know it wont happen yet but its good to know he thinks about it. Good thing i have WeddingBee to get out my “wedding fix”, haha!
Post # 3
awww jwinnings…. I know what you mean. I started dreaming about marrying my Fiance years ago… and just now have we gotten to the point where it can happen!
If I could go back and do it all over again, I’d do three things:
1. SAVE MONEY LIKE CRAZY. lol. weddings are expensive.
2. Read personal finance books like crazy.
3. Figure out a theme for my wedding… I have changed my mind soooo many times.
So hopefully these three “prep steps” might help you? And you’ve posted such great things on Weddingbee, I can imagine his egging you on must be frustrating! Good luck girl!!!!
Post # 4
haha, I know what you mean! sometimes I wonder if they are trying to make us crazy or if they are just totally clueless!
Post # 5
@cinemaparadiso-thanks for the tips! definitely something i’ll take into account! i love posting here, it does help me get out any “wedding energy” i might have so i dont end up driving him crazy. even though im going a little crazy with him saying these things myself, haha.
Post # 6
I wish I had found this place while waiting… I would have gotten that crazy out and not been so.. umm… psycho b*tch!! haha. good thing Fiance loves me no matter what!
Post # 7
but those are deliciously sweet things to say! aww. but yeah, i feel you on how hearing those things will make that itch that much stronger.
i agree with cinema’s suggestion. definitely start socking money away. anything you can save now will come in handy later!
Post # 8
no advise… however, in january i plan on socking away some cash lol
Post # 9
well at least they were sweet things to say, that makes me happy
Post # 10
Maybe he is planning on getting engaged soon and is teasing you? That’s what my husband did.
Post # 11
I doubt that but that’d definitely be nice!