(Closed) He’s obsessing over weight

posted 6 years ago in Fitness
Post # 3
425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh man, reminds me of my fiance too. Hes toooo preoccupied with the gym — and LOVES working out. no matter what I tell him, he still constantly believes he can improve.. Also my Sisters Boyfriend or Best Friend is CONSTANTLY also at the gym becuase he too believes hes fat. He was a fat kid once and it took a toll on his personality now. So  he thinks he can NEVER go back so he over does it. Maybe your Fiance is afraid of letting himself go because of past experiences.. it could be his own weight in the past or even close family members or family who are/were over weight?


Post # 4
3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Compulsive exercise can be a serious problem. If he’s a healthy weight and still acts like this, he should probably see someone for counselling.

Post # 5
288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@[email protected]: Me personally, I would ask to go to the gym with him and try one of his workouts to see if there is really reason to be that concerned.  If it is excessive in any area: intensity or time, I would go with him and encourage him to seek some professional help, because it is probably linked to a much deeper issue.

Post # 6
1240 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sounds like my Fiance. He hadn’t stepped on a scale in a few months. And I’ve been trying to lose. Not really TRYING. But if it happened. That’s great. 

He almost cried when he saw it say 200. He’s 6’3″. I think that’s okay. But he was upset. So I guess we’re going to start eating healthy… *rolls eyes* that’s no fun. He got me a kitchen aid.

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