(Closed) hey hive, i just need a little support…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
865 posts
Busy bee

Hugs! hopefully youll be able to pick a date soon.

Post # 4
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry girlie!  I know how you feel about moving right after you get married, it can be so stressful.  That’s what we had to do this summer in order for my husband to have a job after graduation.  I hope that grad school gets figured out soon so you can have a set date!

Post # 5
Member
689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

*hug* aw i’m sorry…try to be patient..the time will come when you’ll set a date, i know it’s hard but it’ll come!…

Post # 6
Member
1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ugh. Grad school just messes with everything. We’re starting to think about the future after the wedding and when people ask all we can do is shrug. until you get a YES on an application, who knows where you will end up?! For now, i suggest taking a few big breaths. While you don’t have a date set, you can make concrete decisions- look at venues, caterers, DIs, bakeries, photographers, rental companies, etc. Make a 1-5 list of the ones you LOVE as they are online. Maybe send out feelers as to pricing or personality. Then, when the day arrives that you can set a date, BAM! you are ready! You could then throw a wedding together in just a few months or less! And while I have never been to Texas (or anywhere South of St. Louis), my Uncle lives there and loves it. I also have friends in the state who adore living there.

Post # 8
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I hope that you do find out soon.  So can you go ahead with the May wedding if you find out that you don’t have to leave right away?

Post # 10
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Not good at all!  But if he is leaving that soon, then you wouldn’t be able to have the wedding where you are anyway unless you don’t move until later right?

Post # 12
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh yeah having it near family does make it easier.  Though living with family isn’t always fun!  Ice cream should make you happy not more stressed!  My stepmom says that my husband should get me a Christmas tree to make me happy but that won’t happen lol.

Post # 13
Member
7976 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

(((Hugs)))

I’m sorry to hear this! 🙁

I’m a little confused though, why doensn’t May work? Will FI already be in TX working then?

Post # 15
Member
7976 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

okay, I get that. 🙁

Any idea when you’ll know more/be able to find a date?

Post # 16
Member
888 posts
Busy bee

HUGS.

Sometimes life gets in the way of wedding plans – I know I did in my case and it was hard at first.  I had to move my wedding from April to Oct 2010, and from New Zealand to Vegas – not to mention that I have already had a quick city hall ceremony so my partner could start the green card process and have to have a vow renewal so all of our family and friends can attend. 

But at the end of the day. your lives together are more important than whether your wedding happens in May, or at another time.  The time will come when you will figure everything out and then you will feel much better.  I felt exactly the same way, but now, I’m super happy things worked out the way they did!

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