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Hey hive... this is my for-real goodbye.

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    cinemaparadiso    July 16, 2015  

    For a little while, at least. Some of you may have seen my other post, about FI. Well, if it's not one thing, it's another, and I found out this wedding may be pushed back even farther (if it happens at all, at this point) because of his poor planning for the future. I want to stay, but every day it kills me watching other people plan their weddings. I love you all so much, you are all like friends to me.

    Maybe when I have a date, I will be able to come back and be ok with seeing this stuff. But for now, I just need to focus on something that isn't wedding related. I thought about slipping under the radar, but who am I kidding--that's not me! I tell you guys everything via my board posts, and so, i'm telling you this now.

    I wish you nothing but good in planning your beautiful weddings, your dream honeymoons and your lovely lives, and thank you so much for making my time in the hive welcoming and happy. Best wishes!

     
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    Coccinelle       Santa Barbara, CA

    :( I wish you the best of luck in everything! Big ((HUGS))! See you soon!!

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    :( We will miss you! Hope to see you back soon with good news about everything.

     
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    msmonicka    June 19, 2010   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    good luck hun and take care (hugs)

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Oh CP, I'm sorry to hear this and hope to see you back soon.  Big hug!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    Oh no :(.... you're one of my favorites!! Do you have a blog or something like that?? I'd love to keep you with you because you rock and i always enjoy your posts.... I hope that everything comes as it should. I promise that everything happens for a reason and that things will get easier ((HUGS))... if you want to chat definitely pm me and i'll give you my email. Believe me when I tell you I've been there... ((HUGS))

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    This makes my heart sad. :( I hope everything works out for the best, and I know I'll miss you!

     
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    hisbunny    March 13, 2010   ND

    I'm really sorry for you CP.....  Hope that you both are able to plan your future together in a wonderful way!   Sorry to see you leave.  :(

     
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    Serya    October 7, 2011   Frederick, MD

    Take care and I hope everything works out so we can see you back here soon!

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    hope everything works out, Cinema! We'll (I'll) miss you around WB. Hope you can come back rejoicing someday, ideally not too far in the future!

     
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    professorbee    8/8/09  

    I know this is an unbelievably hard time for you right now, but you are REALLY doing the right thing by holding off on the wedding planning.  

    It will give your FI time to learn how to manage his relationship with his parents better, and to ensure that your marriage will start on a more solid foundation.  Or if he just isn't ready for marriage, it is better to learn that now than after the wedding (or especially after children).  

    I am so sorry that you have to go through this, and hope that all works out for the best (either he matures and becomes ready for marriage soon, or if that's not possible I hope that you will soon meet a wonderful man who will be ready to appreciate and support you).

    Best of luck to you!

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010  

    oh but your my inspiration!!! you cant leave!! but I understand :( I wish you all the best, and I hope you can come back soon.

    Best wishes for 2010, may it be filled with only but good things!

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    :( I'll miss you.

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    Sad face. :(  I'm sorry you have to go, I'll miss reading your posts! I hope everything works out for you, and that you come back soon. ((Hugs))

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    So sorry to see you go.....hope you come back soon.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I'm sorry you're leaving but you know what's best for you and your relationship. I hope you guys can work everything out. I wish you the best for 2010!

     
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    mmm31911    May 14, 2011  

    This makes me so sad! :( The only other Chucktown bride on the boards that I am aware of! I hope everything works out and I wish you nothing but the best. I hope to see you back here soon! :)

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Sorry to see you go, I hope it all works out.  We'd love to see ya back soon :)

     
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    i'm sorry you're going through such a tough time, and you will definitely be missed. take care of yourself and keep us updated, okay?

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    Completely understandable! I would feel the same way. Good luck!! We can't wait to hear from you again! PLEASE update us on any news!! :)

     
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    WDWBride    March 3, 2010   Walt Disney World

    Aww I'm sad to see you go. You always have such good advice!!  Good luck with whatever happens but I hope you come back soon!!

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    ((HUGS)) Good luck with everything. I totally understand and I'd do the same thing. Here's hoping 2010 brings amazing things for you!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Oh girl you will be missed!  I hope you come back soon.

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    aww sad!! best of luck, and i hope everything works out!

     
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    pmerr    August 14, 2010   Rochester, NY

    :( I'll miss you!! I hope everything works out & you can come back! :)

     
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    hazel920    July 3, 2011   happy engagement land

    No goodbyes, Ms. Cinema.  (I hate goodbyes.)  Just a...."Catch you on the flip side."  ;) Hope to see you soon!

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    You'll be missed here on the boards! I hope everything gets better in 2010 and you are able to come back and join us with happy news!

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    Oh no! I just logged on for the first time since yesterday afternoon & saw this!! I'm sad now!  CP you are such a great bee-friend :) I wish you the best & hope to see you back really soon! I'll miss you :(

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    :( Hope everything works out in the end and we see you around again soon!  You'll be missed CP!

     
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    Valhalla    June 26, 2010   Vancouver, British Columbia

    You will be missed Cinema! I always enjoyed your posts. Good luck!

     
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    arizonabride    June 2, 2010   Tucson, AZ

    Wishing you all the best, Cinema! Hope you'll be back!

     
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    shendydavids    September 11, 2011   Sarasota Florida

    Awe, im sorry to hear that.  Good luck with everything!

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    Good luck and hope to see you back soon!

     
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    Lorienne    January 1, 2016   Los Angeles, CA

    Sending you HUGE hugs and hoping to see you back here soon!

     

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