- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
A couple days ago, I was at a baby shower, asked my Fiance what he was doin after he had gotten off work. He said he called his family to a “family meeting” and he would tell me about it when I got home.
He called this “meeting” because he had went to talk to his ex about a couple things and it somehow got brought up that “his family doesnt have very nice things to say about me” were her words to him.
Now, on top of thinking that his family is talking about me to HER, He got his whole family together to talk about. . . ME! Im not sure how I feel about it. He said he was trying to do right by me, and I kind of understand. it just bugs me now. I honestly dont care too much if someone in his family dont like me or whatever, but I think that his ex wife is the last person they need to be talking to about me.
I dont know how to handle is ex PERIOD. All she is doing is trying to take him for all the money he has, and now (Me being a stay at home mom) am looking for a job. . . She called him yesterday and wants him to reimburse her for a co pay that she had to “take out of her own bank account” more words from her. He said he didnt want to tell me right away because I would get mad. I told him I wasnt mad, because he didnt need to give her that money. That is why he pays her child support every month. Then he decided to tell me that it is in their divorce that he pays every single doctor visit bill, co pay, whatever. On top of giving her over $500 a month (which can pay her rent.) I feel like he will be taking care of her whole family (she is pregnant again) and quit her job a few months ago.
I know people do it all the time. i just dont know how to deal with it. Im just very frusterated by the whole thing. I dont like feeling like I have to get a job, put my kids in daycare because of her. I dont try and take everything I can get my childrens fathers’ . . . Just dont know how to cope!