(Closed) His family, and his ex wife. .

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Colieee34:  The issues with ex will always be there. He will always have to pay child support. He will always have to cover medical bills, and her situation doesn’t matter.

It sucks. Trust me I’m in the same situation, but if you can’t get over that stuff and not take out your frustration on him, run now. It won’t get better. This is his life until the kids are 18. 

His family may also choose her over you because she had his children. This is such a horrible thing, but it’s reality right now. It hurts, it’s aggrivating, and will cause stress and problems between you for a long time. I’m also dealing with this in some respects.  Sometimes, it’s better just not to take part in it.  I just do what I can to ignore it, even though it’s not logical. They should be protecting him, but they aren’t, and it’s hard to see and imagine.

Post # 4
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry you are going through this! It must be so frustrating.

LIke most relationships, people come with baggage and in your case you have got an entire ex family to live and deal with.

I think it would be best for you to be up front with your husband and make sure things are working out fair and going in the best possible direction. Its a big sacrifice to put the kids in daycare and go back to work, to help pay someone else expenses.

Perhaps you could meet with the ex to hash things out and also maybe a counselor or a friend who has been in a similar place? I know it isn’t an easy thing to deal with!

Post # 5
731 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mwitter80:  took the word right out of my mouth! lol

I also have the exwife to deal with, you have to learn to pick your battles and dont sweat the small stuff.

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