- 5 years ago
Please excuse the fact that is my first post… ive been looking on the site for a while and decided to make an accout on here not so long ago but havent gotten round to use this site myself until now.
I don’t know what to do!
His family were fine in the begining, everyone seemed to get on well, we always talked and everyone seemed friendly… A few years down the line and they can’t stand me. The only things that have changed is that we have moved in together, had a few children and gotten engaged, it seems that the stronger our relationship gets, the more they hate me!
Theyve started countless argumements with my fiancee over the fact that they dont like me, they never give him a reason why they dont like me, they just don’t. Not one of them.
Theyve tried getting his ex girlfriend back on the scene even though she has a partner and is living with him! But shes fine to play along with this and try split us up and try and win him back although they were together over 5 years ago and he wants nothing to do with her.They always say that I’m controlling my fiancee and that he’s changed because of me, but he’s a grown man, he has his own mind, it’s just ridiculous.I can’t say theyre doing this because they’re all jealous, hes the only boy and he has four sisters. I havent given them any reason to be jealous! Ive always been kind to all of them and they were quick enough to accept old clothes of my childrens when i was getting rid of them. I can’t do anything right, I’m a devil woman.
My fiancee has stood by me throughout the whole of this and maintains that he has no idea where their oppinions of me have come from. He’s cut himself off from his family because they can’t and wont accept me for unknown reasons and they still try and cause crap between us. We’ve had to deactivate our facebooks because of drama, our engagment was ruined because of really horrible comments, phonecalls and texts made by them.
I really dont know what to do.Has anyone else been this sort of situation? How did you handle it if you did? The stress of it all is really upsetting me, I dont know how many more years of this I can take!