(Closed) Hit a little rough patch in the relationship….. LONG!!!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
9 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MissXray:  Getting that all typed out must have felt awesome!  I totally read the whole thing.  =) I, for one, am SO GLAD that weddingbee is here as a safe space and a sounding board: because emotions just go HAYWIRE during wedding planning, and sometimes venting them out to friends, moms, FHs, family–can make you even MORE stressed because you look back and think you sounded cRaZy.  

So: you are not crazy!  You talked it out with a friend–that’s awesome she is there for you and actually has advice that makes sense to you.  You worked it out with Mr. Xray, and it sounds like he responded to your rough patch with an outpouring of love by telling you his proposal plans.  Even if you wanted to keep it a surprise!  Sounds like in the midst of “making up” from the argument, his thought process was “See, I love you so much that here are all my plans that I’ve been working on for you, and for the proposal!” 

Good luck as you continue to plan, and grow as a couple.  =)

Post # 5
Member
1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Trial and tribulations are good for relationships because you learn to work through them and it will make your relationship so much stronger. It sounds like you guys have been working through a lot, but the important thing is working through it and getting back to the same page, which you guys have 🙂

Post # 6
Member
1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I read it all because I’m happy to see a normal post (no cheating/jealousy/bachelor party/or porn involved!).  We all have our hiccups in our relationships but yours are ones that we all go through at some point in our relationship.  You sound like you are moving in the right direction so keep up the good work! 

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