Weddingbee boards

OK bees, I need a little insight here. Mr. FS and I just celebrated our 5 year anniversary on Tuesday (woop woop!) and instead of exchanging gifts we write letters to each other. His letter was RIDICULOUSLY sweet, I ended up shedding a few tears! Anyways, at the end of his letter he wrote that he "works so hard to give me the nice things I deserve (Im thinking this is in reference to the ring he is saving for..), and that he wants to get married so badly, but he wants it to be perfect." Also, according to his letter, "he loves he so much that anything less then perfect isnt good enough."

IM SO CONFUSED lol!!!

Mr. FS is the spontaneous type, so to actually hear that he is trying to plan something perfect is so STRANGE to me! I'm sure all this means is that he wants to be financially stable so we can afford to have a wedding, but it also brings up a few topics we have never discussed: the wedding budget and how big/small, how any guests etc. I HAVE NO CLUE what he would want in terms of how big/small/expensive/inexpensive a wedding he wants! I just assumed I would be DIYing alot and making it cost efficient, buuut now I'm wondering if that is what he means by "perfect"? I feel like there really isnt the perfect time to get engaged/married, money will always be an issue, no?

So tell me, am I over-analyzing? What do ya'll think?

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I think you are looking into things a little too much.  I don't think he's really thinking of all the details of the planning...atleast most guys don't.  But good to see that he is alluding to the wedding.

Yea..I figure I'm over-analyzing. The important part is that I am happy right now and I am grateful that were such a strong couple. I just hope he knows that life is never truly perfect,no matter how hard you try and that there is never enough money, people always want more.