Post # 1
My SO and I have been together for 2 years. This will be our second holiday season together. I love to send holiday cards to close friends and family. Last year I did this solo, but I would love to send out a photo card from the two of us this year.
We are very serious and in the waiting phase, but do not live together yet. Is it weird to send a card out this year? When is it okay?
Post # 3
@girlygirl885: I think it depends on what you think the reception from friends and family. FI wanted to send out photo cards last Christmas when we were not engaged (4 years together) and I thought it would be weird. This year, now that we are engaged, I was all for it.
Post # 4
@crystalrae: We have a lot of couple friends and they did cards prior to being engaged/married so I think they would totally be okay with it. They are just as excited for us to be engaged someday soon so I don’t think they would think its odd.
Post # 5
My SO and I aren’t engaged yet (or even living together), but we sent out a joint holiday card last year and plan to do so again this year. Last year was our second holiday season together, and he was all for it. We didn’t put a picture of us on it though. We just put a picture of my dog and plan to do the same this time around. 🙂 No one in my circle of family/friends thought it was werid, or if they did, they didn’t mention it. I know a few couples that do this as well.
Post # 6
@girlygirl885: If it seems like a normal thing amongst your circle I would go for it!
Post # 7
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
@girlygirl885: I definitely don’t think it’s weird, as long as you two are serious about each other and are sharing a life together. We would have done this before getting engaged/married, except I never got around to it 😉
Post # 8
In general, I think photo cards are weird. But that’s just me.
Whether it’s a photo card or just a generic holiday greeting card, I don’t think it matters if you’re engaged or not to send out a joint one.
Post # 9
We sent out some joint ones to family while we were dating (mainly bc he wouldn’t bother writing his own, so they only way his family would get cards from him was if he signed the ones I sent), but we’ve never done photo cards. I think if you were my friends IRL and weren’t living together, I would see a joint photo card as a little odd, but not think twice about a general holiday card signed by both of you.
Post # 10
We started sending joint holiday cards once we lived together. I think if you’re just sending to close family and close friends (i.e, not great Aunt Sally who you haven’t seen in 2 years), it should be fine, but I wouldn’t send every single card from both of you.
Post # 11
@girlygirl885: Hi! We’ve been sending cards for a couple of years now, only being engaged. My dad had some pushback but it was fine– people liked it! This year will be the first time we send it as an engaged couple!
Post # 12
with my current FI, we started last year as we live together.. however we put a picture of our puppy in the front and a smaller picture of us in the back and only sent it out to our parents and close friends.. this year we wont be sending any.. i dont think people care much about them anyways lols..so we decided to save the money 🙂 same reasoning goes for printed save the dates…
Post # 13
My now husband & I sent them before we were engaged a few years. Whenever you want to!
Post # 14
Living together. We were living together for many years before even getting engaged. I sent our cards to our family and close friends, and over the years extended the list. For most of those years it was our dog, in a funny setup (like wrapped in xmas lights, or on the beach with a santa hat, etc.
Post # 15
I said living together. FI and I sent out photo holiday cards last year before we were engaged and people loved them.