Holidays and how it's always one sided

posted 3 years ago in Holidays
Post # 4
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

So the issue is that you would like to see them more or less?

Post # 7
34 posts
  • Wedding: October 2014

You cannot expect other people to put their life on hold in case you come to visit, same as they can’t expect you to drop everything if they visit you.


i get it – I moved 8 hrs away from my friends and can only visit during school holidays as I am a teacher. As a result, I have to work around others when I visit. Always appreciate when others go out of their wat for me but I can’t expect their life to revolve around me. 

Post # 9
1690 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I dont really understand your post, I’m sorry. Maybe that’s why you’re not getting a lot of replies.

Post # 11
2666 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

@Ap2010:  If they don’t put you as a priority, maybe it’s time to stop making visiting THEM a priority? Skip a year or two and see if they complain about not having seen you — maybe then they’ll make an effort.

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