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    josephine1711    October 22, 2010   Hilbert

    alright where do I start, My sister has been a liar her entire life I swear! So I am trying to get all the girls in to get fitted, for my wedding October 22nd. I got all of them to get in except 1..... my sister... so at first she was asking me when the deadline would be to order, I wasn't sure so she offered to ask the bridal shop and they gave her THE LATEST! May 28th. She said she would go by then and that would work because she was getting surgery on her shoulder the next week, well she didn't go. Apparently she "called in her measurements" (which is fine and dandy....just wait for it tho!) and then after her surgery she asked when she needed to pay and I guess the bridal shop lost the measurements.....HELLO SISTER YOU HAD THE MEASUREMENTS! You could just give them to them again, well come to find out from my mother she didnt have any money to get the dress....but wait a minute!!!! didn't I just give her 250 dollars for invites that she had made at her printing company and she paid out of her own pocket and she said she was going to use it for the dress???????? WTF? So I was curious I called the bridal shop today and I asked who was all left well it was just her...yeah....so I left her 2 text messages, and 2 voicemails, I told her I spoke to the bridal shop today and I told them to order them by saturday. Well she called me back and said "I talked to the bridal shop and they said monday would be fine" WTF AGAIN???? Um I'm pretty sure that is NOT your place. So I am really kinda thinking she's not going to be in the wedding......

    Now for my other bridesmaid thats a pain in the BOOTAY! I was in her wedding and she freaked out that I couldn't get the shoes she wanted (sorry I wear size 10 1/2) Literally she freaked out on me over the phone as I was standing in the shoe store. Well now she's in a wedding before mine and she is all irritated that this bride wants certain shoes and she is complaining to me about it WTF? I totally bit my tongue. So she was lucky enough in her wedding to get her dress for clearance, and on sale for less than 170$  I WISH! any way the bridesmaids dresses I picked out were the cheapest and my favorite, but when you have to order a plus size dress they cost more. My bridesmaids dresses were 180 with 10% off and then 20$ for additional size, plus shipping and taxes. Right after she walked out she called me crying and saying "how could you make us pay that much? My wedding dress wasnt even that much money, I cant believe you would do that??? "

    I am just pissed  GRRRRR  I just........UGH! I DONT KNOW!!!! Is it officail do I have bridesmaidZILLAS????

     
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    Tswife4ever    May 28, 2011   California

    None of that is your fault!!! I have a horrible sister too (who was my MOH) but apparently doesnt want to help with nething so I have taken away her title. Its hard because we want our sisters to be the MOST caring about the whole thing but unfortunately it doesnt work that way. And its not YOUR fault ur friend bought a dress that cheap!

     
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    jenbrandner    Aug 7, 2010   Wisconsin

    Yep, sounds like a bridesmaidzilla alright!  If I were you I wouldn't trust her with any more money or deadlines.  If she can just show up at your ceremony with the right dress on, then you're doing pretty good.  Wink

     
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    greenek2    October 22, 2010   Atlanta, GA

    off topic, but you are the first person I have seen with the same wedding date. yay for us!

     
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    josephine1711    October 22, 2010   Hilbert

    YEY I  havent seen one yet awesome :D

     
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    iceprincess717    August 15, 2011   Texas

    Oh yes, major bridesmaidzilla. I am so sorry, you don't deserve that, especially when you didn't act like that! As for your sister... she either needs to shape up or ship out. Sorry, but you really don't need all that crazy drama right now!

     

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