Holy Crap! Very Private Messages Got Shared On Facebook!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6407 posts
Bee Keeper

That’s a nightmare. what a stupid “feature” for facebook to have.

Post # 4
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Oh noooo!!!!!!

Contact the people who are there and say “if you love me, don’t read those messages”. I know it’s too late for some people but maybe some haven’t seen it yet??

Post # 5
1560 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Kat:  YIKES!!! Damn girl. I don’t even know what to say. (hugs) now go have that drink and try not to obsess!

Post # 6
3303 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Woah…that’s so shitty.  And def not something I had ever considered.  Gah!

Post # 7
6812 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

OMG !!! I would be mortified. I feel SO bad for you!!! I cannot BELIEVE this is possible, but actually, yes I can because I hate Facebook for this very reason – it’s as if the creators of Facebook ahd some sort of sick obsession of knowing intimate, private detials of people’s lives because shit like this always ends up public.

I know it’s too late to do much about it now – other than apologize to anyone you may have hurt/insulted/offended with your very private messages that were NEVER supposed to have been publicized – but in the future, I would consider gchat. It’s much more private, I have it set up so that my conversations are not saved in gchat history (so no one can ever get on my email and find my gchat history) and I’ve never heard of anything going awry with gchat/gmail so that all of a sudden some very personal, private conversations have become personal.

Post # 8
855 posts
Busy bee

@Kat:  omg the stuff of nightmares for sure! I have to say you have handled it beautifully considering. You need a job in emergency response! 🙂

Post # 9
1102 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Kat:  I’m so sorry, just remember “this too shall pass”…and if you need a drink I say go for it.

Post # 12
91 posts
Worker bee

@Kat:  I agree. Don’t say a word about the messages. Drawing more attention to them is not the way to go. That really really sucks.  I hope nobody drops out of attending your wedding etc. 

If it’s any consolation,  your ring is gorgeous…

Post # 15
395 posts
Helper bee

Anyone with a sense of decency and kindness will laugh it off. I hope. Booze also rocks. 

Post # 16
13 posts
  • Wedding: January 2015

Poor girl! I am so sorry, I would be so upset if I were you 🙁 Just know that the ones who truly love you and care about you will look past and forgive. Everyone says things that would be upsetting to others at some point, and they’re a fool if they try to deny that.

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