Home stretch, but these next few weeks are gonna be rough!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@Cinderella7: It’s awesome that you are so close to getting engaged! I’d probably take up a new hobby to get your mind off of it 🙂

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

My ring will be done end of Janauary and I know what you mean- the last few weeks are HELL. So tough knowing you’re so close

 

Good luck!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I know it’ll be happening before the end of March. I can’t wait, going to burst with excitement 😛

Post # 6
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Helper bee

Yep! but I’m the guy so i’m in a different position than others.mind you, the waiting position for the male is probably just as hard and frustrating (in my case)

We originally were talking about getting engaged and me buying a specific ring. But I wanted to surprise her, so I told her that I think we should wait until we’re more financially secure… which was believable because we’re both grad students. Little does she know that I bought the ring already and am WAITING for it to be completed!

I’m even more frustrated because she literally came up to me today and asked “so it’s (the proposal) really not gonna happen anytime soon… and I saw the frustration/pain/saddness on her face EmbarassedCry it took every fiber in my body to not tell her the ring was ordered…. but this little bit of pain or frustration will result in a lot of joy and tears hopefully… it’s only been 4 days (when it’s supposed to take 3-4 weeks) since the ring was ordered and I just wanna yell at the jeweler for not hurrying up!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

@Cinderella7:  I’m with you!!! He’s had the ring for a little over 2 weeks now and I’m POSITIVE that the proposal is coming this week. He says he thinks we should “do something fun this weekend when we’re off from work.” He usually goes to the barber once every 3 weeks to get a haircut, but his hair is freaking long recently and hasn’t gotten a cut in over a month! Everytime I ask him wth are you growing your hair out?! When are you cutting it?! He just smiles and shrugs and says “don’t worry I will.” SMH. The closer it gets, the harder the waiting gets…FOR SURE. I’m bursting at the seams. These next few days are gonna be rough, but I know it’ll be worth it!

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee

@Cinderella7:  ahhh! thats so exciting! i’m going through the same thing right now! My SO has the ring but he wants to surprise me with the proposal so i have NO clue when it’s gonna happen. if he takes too long i am goign to go INSANE! I joined the SIUP to help keep me accountable and not drive him insane…but its driving me crazy! i have so many questions i want to ask him lol. waiting IS VERY rough but at least we have the Bee right?? the ladies here are awesome! good luck to you and i hope you get your proposal very soon!

Post # 10
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Busy bee

@NYCkindaBee:  I saw your post on the SIUP! I hope you get your proposal this weekend!! sounds like it could be any time 🙂

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

@Cinderella7:  I think you’re strong enough to get through these next few weeks but I also hope your BF proposes sooner rather than later!

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