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    Miss Texas    November 21, 2009   Washington, DC

    so i had my first makeup trial this weekend and i didn't know what to expect. i know that wedding makeup is supposed to be significantly different from your everyday wear, but i didn't think i'd look like some second-rate geisha!

    some people told me that all the cake is for the professional photography. is that true? i'm attaching a photo so you can see the difference. any and all opinions definitely welcome! just someone... help me!

    (p.s. tell me if the image doesn't load.) 

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    I think your make-up looks beautiful - very natural colors. I don't think you look like a second-rate geisha at all! Your eyes are gorgeous and I think the make-up accentuates their natural beauty. What don't you like? Maybe if you are used to going with a more casual everyday look, then this might seem overdone to you, but honestly I think it's perfect for a special occasion like a wedding:)

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    lagizzle    10/24/09   DFW

    i think the colors are really nice and your complexion looks great. The eyes do seem a little heavy, but maybe that is because you are in a tshirt not your wedding gown :)

     
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    caliwed    September 2009   Tennessee

    Ha, ha, ha - I had to laugh.  No, not at you, but at your geisha reference, too funny.  I think your makeup is beautiful.  However, if you are not happy, maybe try a different look.  I think that the eye makeup is very beautiful, but if you are not accustomed to wearing much makeup, the smoky eye might be a little much for you.  What time of day is your ceremony?  Photographs?  Maybe you can adjust it based upon lighting for the time of day.  I think this look is especially perfect for an afternoon/evening event.

     
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    luckyinluv    July 18, 2009   Seattle, wedding in Bay Area

    hahaha - I had to laugh at your geisha reference too! But really, you look gorgeous! and your complexion is perfection! even before your makeup! I'm guessing that you aren't too sure about the makeup because you are used to something more natural? If that's the case, you should try something a little different? I was the same way with my makeup trial! I thought that I had too much makeup on... but I got used to it. I think that this look would be best in the afternoon/evening... also, did you take any pics under natural light? Your makeup will look entirely different in different lights. But I think you are stunning. once your hair is all done up and you're in your dress, wow, you will look superb :-)

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Haha, the geisha thing is cracking me up!  I actually really like your after shot...shoot your before shot is also really beautiful.  I think you might not like the after photo because your eyes are a bit dark.  I think if she changed out that black (or whatever dark color that is) shadow with maybe a brown it would look a little more natural and I think you would feel more comfortable with it.  I personally like it, but make sure to find something that makes you feel happy.

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    pinwheelspoprocks    October 10, 2009   Los Angeles/CA

    oh dear! you do *not* look like a second rate geisha!

    I think wedding make up lies somewhere between stage make up and natural every day.  A good wedding make up artist should know how to apply make up that will last all day, look great for photographs without looking "overdone".

    I think she/he did a great job - you look beautiful.  Is it the colors that are troubling you?  Is it grey/purple?  The smoky eye may be too much for you as a person or the type of wedding you are having.  Did you bring a photo?  Maybe explain that you want a softer look. Thank goodness for trials  - so worth it right?  You'll look stunning! 

     

     
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    hisMrs    October 11, 2009   San Diego

    You look amazing!!!! I wouldn't change a thing on your big day. Heavier makeup is DEFINITELY better for pictures. Most importantly, you need to feel beautiful. If you aren't thrilled with the results then change it up a bit. You really do look great though!

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    I think you look great!

     
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    runrunrun    9/5/09  

    I think you look beautiful - in both photos! I agree with Lillindy, if you think the eyes are too dark maybe they could use a lighter gray (or a lighter hand when applying) or not take the darker shadow as high up on your lid. Personally I think this look is beautiful :)

     
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    Josalyn    August 1, 2010   Coral Gables, FL

    second-rate geisha, lol! I'm going to be honest because you asked. I'm not a fan of the make-up- it doesn't look like you! I have a problem that your face wont be the same color as the rest of your body- my mom did this during the 80's but that is gone and over now. Cake is for photography, but it looks more like you are about to sing and dance on stage and your makeup has to compete with the lighting. I think you should go back and ask your makeup artist not to cover up your skin color- from the looks of it, your skin is clear and perfect as it so all you would need is translucent powder to keep the shine away, not all the stuff she put on you. (This all could be based off of the lighting in the pictures also)

    Other than that though, I like everything else- the blush, eyes, lipstick! I just wish she left your skin the beautiful color it is

     
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    I think it looks nice.  But agree with the other posters about the eyes.

     
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    lreighard1    8/22/09   Washington, DC

    I honestly think you look great!  I personally would prefer lighter on the gray around the eyes but otherwise -- wooo!.  If you aren't happy though, I would express this to the makeup artist  or try to find someone that you are more comfortable with.  Good luck!

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    MrsDavis    6-21-2008   Ohio

    Its hard to see yourself in that much makeup if you don't usually wear it. But I think its beautiful. Maybe go a litter lighter on the eyes next time but overall its very pretty.

     
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    theantihot    August 1, 2009   Herndon, VA

    i see what you're saying, but i think you look better than you might think you do!

    also:

    - this makeup will look better in professional photos

    - you do look beautiful :)

     

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    - the makeup's still supposed to make you feel like you, only a glammed up you - if you have ANY hesitations, try again! its too important.

     
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    snmcdowell    9-13-08   Chicago

    I can't quite put my finger on it, but something about the makeup is just not right. It seems like the foundation has significantly changed the color of your skin, which looks fresh and glowy in the before photo, and not as fresh and glowy in the after photo. Can you ask her to match your foundation a bit better to your skin tone?

     
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    Janna19    June 7, 2008   New York

    I think you look beautiful, but if its not the look you are going for, try again!  If you haven't locked in this artist, maybe try someone else to see if you agree with their general aesthetic more?  You should feel really great if you are paying someone to do your makeup!

     
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    peony80    June 6, 2009   Chicago

    I think your cheek and lip color is fabulous.  Very nice and natural, yet it still shows in pictures.  I have to agree with the other comments about the eyes though.  I think the makeup artist could do a little less with the purple/smoky(?) shimmer and go with more of a natural color.  Your eyes are gorgeous so I don't think she needs to cover them up so much like that.  A nice taupy or gold slightly shimmered color with your faux lashes would look great!

    :)  good luck!

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    Miss Texas    November 21, 2009   Washington, DC

    you are all sooooo nice! thank you for all the compliments! but yes, my concerns were mostly about the change of the color of my skin--hence the geisha reference! haha. (FI totally busted a gut when i told him about that too!) she used a liquid foundation and i NEVER use that stuff. it just looked so caked on when i looked up close and made me feel so... for the lack of a better word... YUCKY!  does anyone know of a powder foundation? 

    but anyways... yes, i hardly EVER wear makeup, so that is probably why i didn't feel like it looked right. the ceremony is going to be at 2pm inside and the reception is at 7pm inside as well hence the smokey/dramatic look. but i do think it was a bit too much... i'm thinking it's the faux lashes that were way over the top because prior to her putting on the lashes, i thought my eyes looked perfect. i only wanted the faux lashes cause i have barely any at all! i'm going to see if using a more natural set of lashes would be better.

    i took several pictures in both natural and artificial light. honestly, i looked more tired than i already was in natural light. but then again, i don't have good lighting in my house as it is.  

     
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    AmyM83    May 23, 2009   Southern California

    ok, i just had my makeup trial this weekend as well and I never wear much makeup. it was definitely hard to get used to, but i took some picture OUTSIDE with natural lighting and it looked great! this is something everyone should remember to do (my inside pics made me look orange).

    i think your makeup looks good, but if there is something you want to change, be sure to tell your MUA! they always want their clients to look and feel beautiful and are happy to change things to make you more comfortable.

     
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    IronMaiden    5/9/09   Boston

    Yes Yes Yes, I do know of a FANTASTIC powder foundation!  Clinique Superpoweder Double Face Powder: http://www.clinique.com/templates/products/sp_shaded.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY4906&PRODUCT_ID=PROD559   I use it daily, and people always compliment me on my complexion and say "Aren't you lucky that you don't have to wear foundation"  - I haven't corrected anyone yet, LOL!  The only negative is that they don't have a ton of different colors and it can be tough to get a good match for some people.  Photographs well too!  Anyways, you should look into it.  

    Another good tip I heard is try to wear the color of your wedding dress to your makeup trial - could look really different with white vs. hot pink or black shirt.  Maybe you could photoshop the "cape" to white?  Your makeup might look more appropriate to you when its up against white?

    Good luck! 

     
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    MsB    December 2008  

    I feel like YOU think that's it too much make-up and if that is the case then you should tone it down a little bit. The last thing you want is to feel uncomfortable on your wedding day. Just ask for a little less in the eye/eye brow area and I think it would be perfect. Yes, you need a little extra make-up for the professional pictures, but you still want to be comfortable in real life as well!

    Re: foundation - I used Clinique "Almost Powder" make-up. I find it to be fabulous as it looks and feels like you are wearing nothing and you can build the coverage in the areas where you need it most to cover imperfections. It is a little more expensive than drugstore brands but I find it's worth it!

     
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    I think if you went with a lighter shadow (a brown for your skin tone) and kept the fake lashes it would look better, more natural.  You're right it is a bit much for a 2pm wedding.  Maybe you could add some shadow in between the wedding and the 7pm reception?

     
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    mrsbear    7/22/07   New York

    i agree with all the comments about the foundation color. You could always try bareminerals foundation; some say that because of the SPF it's a bit reflective, but I use it as an everyday foundation with mineral veil as a finishing touch and it usually photographs well. 

    I have to break from the pack and say I don't particularly like the shape of your eyeshadow. I think your eyes are a lovely shape and you don't need the harshly-drawn, dark triangle of shadow to lift the corners of your eyes; i bet with the right set of skills and application you could get your eyes equally perky and lifted without it being so obviously makeup-generated. like others have suggested, maybe warmer shadow tones (pearl and brown, even mauve and peachy-pink) will soften the look. perhaps without the shadow, the lashes won't be as shocking to you. Also, I want to say that you have killer eyebrows! Love 'em!

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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    If you aren't sure that you love it, have another trial with different colors.

    Another idea is to have the artist do 2 different looks on each side of your face (saves $$ because it's still just one trial).

    A lighter eye might look better, or it might look 'too everyday' you might also try a more dramatic lip color?

     
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    Miss Texas    November 21, 2009   Washington, DC

    mrsbear: thanks, i do my own eyebrows! they'rereally sparse, but i've managed to make them work somehow. i've always wanted to try the bare minerals line, but could never justify the price cause i hardly ever wear makeup. but i'm thinking this maybe the right time to buckle down and do it! 

    roseychicklet: i'm not a fan of a mroe dramatic lip color cause i bite my lips A LOT! i like the idea of doing a half/half look. 

    MightySapphire: i love the idea of changing faces for the reception! i just don't know when i'd have the time to do it! and also, is that something i would do myself or have the MUA do?? 

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    I think the colors of the make-up are lovely!  I would only ask that they soften the eyeshadow line a bit - but def keep the lashes!

    Whatever you have them do, just be comfortable.  If the heavy/cake type foundation is too much, maybe they have a lighter one that can give the same results.

     You look beautiful!

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    SpaceC06    02/07/2009   Albuquerque

    I think it looks great. 

    Remember your wedding photos will be taken in all sorts of lighting conditions, inside with soft light, inside with harsh light, outside with bright sun or outside in partly cloudy, completely cloudy.  The other side is that it will be a LONG day, so while it seems extreme in the beginning it will slowly "melt away".

    Maybe try it again if you are completely disatisified, but know what you are discontent with and maybe bring some inspiration photos.  Next time take pictures in a bunch of different lighting conditions too!

    A good makeup artist will be able to match your foundation and easily go lighter on the eyes. I love the fake lashes, they make your eyes pop!

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