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My biggest issue right now is that we had planned on going to England to visit his family in May. Now that we're getting married this September, he wants to do that trip for our honeymoon in late September early October.

While it doesn't exactly thrill me that we will be with family on our honeymoon, I know it's important that we go because his grandmother is ill, she's 92 years old. I decided for these reasons I could deal with that. I would like to meet her, but he just informed me that his 2 Brothers and Dad have expressed interest in joining us. My fiance semed equally displeased with the idea, but we cant stop them from visiting family. He told me if I said no that they would probably not come. I'm angry that he's put me in the position of being the ''Bad guy'' in the first place! He should have just said no!

I'm worried that even though I've said no, they may come anyway (because I know them) We're going to England for 3 weeks so I asked him if we could spend the first week alone and then visit family, because we had planned on the reverse. I'm sure if we spend the first week with them we'll end up spending all 3 weeks together! he wouldnt go for that though, he said they will be anxous to see us.

I know there isn't anyone who can fix this issue, so the reason or my post is...I really needed to vent this and wondered if anyone else has delt with this or has any ideas, because they're not gonna let me on the plane with a 26 of Jack Daniels!!! Thanks for listening ladies :)