(Closed) Honeymoons—-with another couple?

posted 6 years ago in Honeymoons
Post # 3
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

How so?

Are you going to the same resort? Planning on dinners together? Outings together?

I mean, ideally a honeymoon should be for you and your Darling Husband.

I think if you’re doing a traveling honeymoon and might meet up with them at one local for a meal or outing, that’s fine. But sharing your whole honeymoon with another couple does seem a bit odd.

Post # 4
7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I’m not excited about that thought at all.

You’ll have the rest of your life to go on joint vacations with other couples – but it doesn’t make sense to me to plan a honeymoon with another couple, personally.

After the wedding, I wanted Darling Husband all to myself.  Every.stinkin’.moment! 🙂

Post # 5
441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

We are planning on going on a two week honeymoon. The first week we said that anyone that would like to join us are welcome, but we will be staying an extra week by ourselves. Surprisingly a lot of people said they are going to be going away with us after the wedding, about 19 people said they will be coming. I think it is a great way to celebrate with people you love.

Post # 6
3943 posts
Honey bee

Never in a million years.

I love our friends, but I have absolutely no desire to see them while on our honeymoon.

Post # 7
2393 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I don’t really like the idea of it. Going somewhere with another couple is a vacation, not a honeymoon…atleast that’s how it seems to me.

Post # 8
2823 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Not on my honeymoon, sorry.

Post # 9
4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

There is no chance in hell that we’d be traveling with another couple for our honeymoon.  


Other vacations?  Sure.  Not this one.  🙂

Post # 10
2158 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Nooooooooooo wayyy.  It’s a honeymoon, not a vacation with friends.  How else are you supposed to fit in all the newlywed sex?

Post # 12
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

There is no way in H*ll I would consider this

Post # 13
1934 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

not a chance.  When would you SEE them?  Do you want to have to schedule ANYTHING around what someone other than your spouse wants to do something on your honeymoon?

Post # 14
4284 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I say put a big squash to it. We vacationed with a few friends before, it’s just this is your honeymoon!!! Enjoy the one on one time and do another come one come all vacation in a year.

Post # 15
3264 posts
Sugar bee

I would be ok with it, depending on the couple.  I don’t think of group vacations as a must do everything together kind of thing.  I am comfortable with gonig off on my own (or with DH) and doing what we want.  I would also be comfortable telling people that we would rather do Y activity alone. 

So I would think of it as meeting up with the other couple when I felt like it, and then doing our own thing when we felt like it.


Post # 16
3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Hell no. They can schedule a beach week or something else later in the year, no one gets in on my honeymoon.

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