(Closed) hope i’m not posting too much.. don’t wana annoy you ladies

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Impatiently waiting:

If you don’t want to get pregnant you need to make him wear the condoms or refuse to have sex. I hope you left the part where you’re on the pill out.

Post # 4
2091 posts
Buzzing bee

@Impatiently waiting: “D keeps having unprotected sex with me” 

Um.. no. I hate to be snarky, but you’re having unprotected sex with each other. It’s up to both of you to commit to a BC plan if you don’t want to get pregnant.

Post # 5
1298 posts
Bumble bee

I’m with the other commenters that you need to be on a form of birth control.  It sounds like you also need to force him to wear a condom.  It is still your body, take responsiblity for it!

Post # 6
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you dont want to get pregnant, then the both of you need to agree on that and use reliable birth control. 

Post # 7
289 posts
Helper bee

I know waiting can be tough; I can relate on that point.

However, if you’re not quite ready for babies, and/or if marriage is your ideal condition to start a family, you need to start taking the necessary precautions, each and every time. Unless your boyfriend is having sex with you while you are asleep, or taking advantage of you against your will, you are both making a conscious decision to have unprotected sex.

I’ll be the first to admit that condoms aren’t the most amazing thing on planet earth, and I personally have a hormone imbalance that makes most birth control dangerous for my body. However, I do what I can to ensure that I don’t become pregnant before the time is right. Believe me, the second you entertain the idea of “entering the rain zone without a slicker”, men are going to whine for the option every time. But if you’re not on birth control, it gets tricky. Take control of your body and set some ground rules. You need to have an open conversation with your boyfriend and get on the same page in regards to sex, children, and your future.

Post # 8
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Impatiently waiting: If you don’t want to get pregnant then get on BC or make him wear condoms. It’s simple as that. If you get pregnant then you can only blame himself. 

Post # 10
3303 posts
Sugar bee

definitely get on birth control especially since you aren’t ready yet and you want to be married first.

Post # 11
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

Can you go on hormonal birth control? That way you have more control of your own body. 

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