Hope My Officiant Doesn't Kill Me

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
2878 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think everyone involved wants you to be happy with the ceremony.  If you don’t like the ceremony, change it/have her change it 🙂 She does this for a living; I’m sure she’s used to it.

Post # 4
4941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@HVbride:  I completely customized the ceremony. Our officiant had sent us a beautiful script, but it just wasn’t us. I spent hours upon hours scouring the internet for different scripts and wove it bits and pieces together to create our perfect ceremony. It was a heck of a lot of work, but I successfully made DH cry (he said the wind was in his eyes…..) and I call that a win. 


Her job is to tell your story how you want it. Honestly, it’s less for her to do and I’m sure she’d rather you take the reins and have something that you love versus her spending lots of time on something that you both think is “okay”. 🙂 


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