(Closed) Horay for another drama inducing RSVP…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: What do you think?
    Rude.. WTF so wrong : (20 votes)
    53 %
    Indifferent... this is what I have to say about it... : (12 votes)
    32 %
    Not rude. You need to lighten up. You already reserved an extra spot for that family. : (6 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3583 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    No, that’s rude.  And since family will be in the area, they could have done a post rehearsal dinner drinks thing somewhere so everybody could say hi him.  Now he gets to upstage the bride. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    1638 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Woodstock:  How old is the child? Are children invited to your wedding? If so, then I would call the cousin/Mr. Smith and ask for the price of the plate. I’m serious. I did with my family member who were asking to bring random people. Strangely, the requests stopped after thatInnocent

    I would call and say you have the room for the cousin, but no one else.

    Furthermore, I would call Mrs. Smith and ask why you had to hear from another source about said cousin coming

    Post # 5
    Member
    1736 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @WillyNilly:  Yep. Agreed.

    I voted “indifferent” because it is what it is, but they shouldn’t use your wedding as a platform for his surprise appearance. I think that perhaps you could suggest having a small get-together a couple days before so that people know he’s back and you don’t feel upstaged.

    Post # 10
    Member
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Wow, she has such tact! I like the way she worded things… Glad it all worked out for the best for everyone!

    Post # 12
    Member
    3697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Your mom is awesome!

    Post # 13
    Member
    2324 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Go mom!!

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