(Closed) Hot or Cold Natured?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are you and your SO compatible when it comes to temperature?
    Yes, we're both the same! : (7 votes)
    17 %
    No, he's always hot and I'm always cold : (28 votes)
    68 %
    No, he's always cold and I'm always hot : (4 votes)
    10 %
    Other (not sure what other could be, but I never think of everything so...) : (2 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    484 posts
    Helper bee

    I am the same – freezing all the time while he is always warm. He calls me his popsicle and I call him my radiator. It works at night in bed because when we snuggle, he warms me up and I cool him down. Other than that, it’s a silent battle with airconditioning and heating, blankets on the bed, windows open or closed, etc.

    I also told him he’d get more "twister" if it was warmer. Being cold definately makes "the game" less enjoyable!

    Post # 4
    Member
    178 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I have bad circulation and am always cold, but keeping the thermostat at 68 works ok for me and it’s actually the setting recommended by my electric company for saving $. Just make sure to turn off the heat/AC each time you leave the house. Makes a huge difference.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5823 posts
    Bee Keeper

    LOL, there’s a lot of us that are cold-blooded!  I’m always freezing!!  My FI is sweet though he’ll bring an extra sweatshirt for me, or close the windows or whatever.  Most often he offers to "warm me up…heh heh heh." 

    Post # 6
    Member
    948 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2018 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

    I am ALWAYS cold.

    Post # 7
    Member
    626 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I’m always freezing.  I wouldn’t say he’s always hot but definitely more so than me.  It makes car rides hell.  One of us is always going to be uncomfortable! And we both have medical problems that are initiated by temperature.

    He has a panic disorder. He explained that when he has a panic attack he starts to feel hot, sweaty and trapped..  So if I want to blast the heat in the car and he is already hot it simulates the panic attack feeling and makes him start to panic over fear of the panic.. very cycular disorder.

    I have Raynauds so when my hands and feet get cold my capilaries constict reducing blood flow.  So my fingers and toes turn white and loose feeling.  When they warm back up it hurts super bad.  Like someone stabbing them and hitting them with hammers.  It’s not the worst thing in the world but it’s unpleasant.

    He usually wins…

    Post # 8
    Member
    2205 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I’m definitely not always cold compared to the avergae girl, I feel like.  But it seems like fi is too warm unless its under 60 degrees….BRRRrrr

    Post # 9
    Member
    63 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I am always freezing too, and my hands and toes like iceblocks pretty much 24/7 ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 10
    Member
    1428 posts
    Bumble bee

    Hee hee…I am in the majority here too, I am always cold & he is always hot, I pile all the blankets over me in bed while he sleeps with just a sheet over him.

    Post # 11
    Member
    78 posts
    Worker bee

    We are almost always opposite, so it works out well.  We balance each other out.  When I’m cold I leech heat from him to help him cool down and vice versa. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 12
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    105 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2007 - Bride's family summer home in the Adirondacks

    rnc620 – I have Raynaud’s too!!  Not very bad and usually just in my toes, but it SUCKS! 

    And yeah, I am always cold and my husband is always hot.  I usually get to keep it warmer than he wants it to be but I still need a blanket.  Haha.  He is always skeptical and says "you can’t REALLY still be cold!!" until I stick my icy bare feet on his stomach.  Then he believes me ๐Ÿ™‚  Mwahaha.

    Post # 13
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    290 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2008

    He has to sleep a fan blowing on him and the overhead fan on so I’m always freezing my tush off. I have a mink blanket that he calls my "buffalo hyde" that I use to keep me warm. I used to have a heated matress pad on my bed but that got taken off when he moved in because it was too hot for him. I am going to eventually get one of those dual heating matress pads so I can just turn on my side.

    Post # 14
    Member
    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2008

    I’m always cold and my husband is always hot. We have our own blankets on our king size bed for that reason. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 15
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    2004 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2008

    I read this story that women are actually warmer than men but that they feel colder than them because of the way our circulation works. We have a more evenly distributed layer of fat in our bodies which keeps our internal organs nicely regulated and warm but makes it more difficult to heat our extremities—and we judge our overall body temperature on the basis of the temperature of our hands and feet. So it’s really not all in our heads!

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