Hotel room the night of the bachelorette party?

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
191 posts
Blushing bee

Likely the girls will take care of this and include you in the room they are booking. Usually you just pack 4 people into a room and the bachlorette doesn’t pay.

Post # 3
9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

We had two rooms right next to each other that my bridesmaids paid for.   If you’re unsure whether your bridesmaids are going to plan for a place to stay, just ask.  

Post # 4
11598 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your girls should handle this.  I have no idea why a bride’s mother would be involved in a bachelorette party — that’s one place I’d want my mother far away from!

Post # 6
585 posts
Busy bee

I am going away for mine too and was wondering this myself!

One of my BMs (who also happens to be my sister ) is refusing to go because it’s costing each girl around $200 to stay at the resort (which includes a spa package). So now I am worried the other BMs have to split it 2 ways instead of 3 ways and I feel terrible…my sister is so cheap! (she can DEF. afford it…). It wont be an issue if I am paying for myself- but I don’t want to ask!

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