Post # 1
My friend and I were going back and forth about this over a glass of wine last night and I can’t stop thinking about it today. Now I wanted to hear what you ladies have experienced!
1. One day I was at work and I looked HOT. Honestly, I don’t think I ever looked so good. I finally fit into this gorgeous skirt suit and had sky high heels. Anyhow, I’m walking down the hall thinking I’m hot shit and one of my coworkers that I didn’t know too well comes walking towards me. He was decent looking but nothing special. But then he locked eyes with me and did not look away. I got so flustered I literally walked into a wall. Not so hot on my end, but dayum- so hot on his.
2. A classmate and I were playing pool at a bar. We had just gotten to know each other so we were still pretty conservative but as the night wore on we both got a bit more flirty. At one point I joked about liking my hair pulled. He was walking by me at the time and in a split second had run his hand up the nape of my neck and got a firm hold on my hair, pulling my head back gently, but forcefully, with his other hand on the side of my neck. I was so damn surprised I think it took me a good second to realize what had happened. Then, schwing.
Okay ladies, tell me your naughty stories.
Post # 3
@missfrillycoat: It’s not naughty at all, but my mom and I still remember it. We were in the car together when I was a teenager, and she was driving. We approached a crosswalk and stopped at the stop sign. When we started to proceed, we noticed that a pedestrian was waiting to cross, and she waved him through. He was a passably attractive young man.
He gave us a ‘thank you’ smile that was just incredible. He was one of those people who is completely transformed when he smiles, and it was brilliant. We actually both were stunned for a moment, and turned to each other with mouths open.
It’s too bad he doesn’t know what an impression he made 🙂
Post # 4
@ANGELaaimt: That is awesome and I can completely attest to those kinds of people. Bless their gorgeous hearts.
Post # 5
When our pugs were puppies, I could not BELIEVE the number of hot guys that would approach us on walks. Some would play with the dogs, some would cuddle them, coo over them. So playing with puppies in itself is not sexy, but seeing a hot guy let his guard down and get all goofy? Hot.
We also used to do dive trips where the captain of the boat was gorgeous. He looked like Tarzan and would spearfish our dinner some nights. He was a really cool guy, too. Basically everything he did was hot. My friend and I had huge crushes on him – I think my dad even had a man crush on him. lol.
Post # 6
@missfrillycoat: your second one reminds me of my husband and something he did 🙂
we were on our second date, before I’d even let him kiss me. we were both drinking and he starts talking about pulling hair being sexual. I laughed NAND told him the only thing that does is hurt. He slowly slid his hand up my neck, grabbed a hand full of hair and tugged, looking me in the eyes the whole time. Big good shock there, now I love it!
it still took about four more dates before I let him kiss me 🙂
Post # 7
Okay, I’ll play – there was this guy that I danced with at some party in college. Cute but not someone I’d drop my jaw over walking down the street. But on the dance floor? Oh. Dear. God. You couldn’t have fit a piece of paper between us and we’d dance in one way and just as I’d catch my breath, he’d change. He would breath on my neck but never actually tried to kiss me. Run his hand down my side, but not quite too far for me to make him stop. And everything was just so confident and assertive. It was incredibly hot. But it was just a couple dances and then I never saw him again.
Post # 8
@abirdword: Lmao at “looked like Tarzan.” Ugh, he sounds gorgeous. And why did you stop going on dive trips?
@Mrslovebug: Wow, you were a good girl! I have to say, once the guy pulled my hair- I knew I wasn’t waiting for anymore dates to get a kiss in. Hah!
Post # 9
@JenGirl: This. The absolute one way to get my attention is to be confident. It changes everything!
Post # 10
I’ve been backed into a wall on multiple occasions, and it still makes me flustered every time… especially if I just get a smug look and nothing else.
Post # 11
@missfrillycoat: haha they sold the boat he went on, and we just don’t go as much anymore.
Post # 12
Grew a five o’clock shadow, put on a flannel shirt, did the laundry, and made pasta for dinner. I’m not even kidding.
Post # 13
@atlbride2013: sounds like my kind of guy!!
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Post # 15
I went to my husband’s house after work one Friday when we were a few weeks into dating. I own a real estate business and was still on the phone with a client when I got there. I motioned that I needed his computer and whispered that it been a really long day as we walked into his office. As I continued on the phone with this client, my guy got me a glass of iced tea, then sat on the floor in front of me, took off my shoes and put my feet in his lap. I got the sexiest foot rub while I continued working. Hot and sweet – one of the reasons he’s my husband now.
Post # 16
@missfrillycoat: This is not necessarily “sexy” but it was for me. My ex hadn’t seen Good Will Hunting but I had and it really REALLY reminded me of him. He had trust issues because his dad was a douche. He was super smart but didn’t believe in himself. On and on. So one day I rented it and we watched it together. Afterwards he was just totally silent and walked outside to smoke. I followed him and just sat in silence for a while until he said…
Him: “What would you do if I did that?”
Me: “You mean just disappeared and somehow I knew it was to follow your passion?”
Me: “Probably the same as Ben Affleck. I’d be sad to lose you but happy you were doing what was right for your life.”
Him: “Well… I guess the metaphore doesn’t work because you’re the best friend and the girl I’d have to go after to be whole.”
Dude. I melted. He had me for a good two years on JUST that line. Other than my proposal, it’s the best compliment I’ve ever received.