Hottest thing a member of the opposite sex has done

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@missfrillycoat:  It’s not naughty at all, but my mom and I still remember it.  We were in the car together when I was a teenager, and she was driving.  We approached a crosswalk and stopped at the stop sign.  When we started to proceed, we noticed that a pedestrian was waiting to cross, and she waved him through.  He was a passably attractive young man.

He gave us a ‘thank you’ smile that was just incredible.  He was one of those people who is completely transformed when he smiles, and it was brilliant.  We actually both were stunned for a moment, and turned to each other with mouths open. 

It’s too bad he doesn’t know what an impression he made 🙂

Post # 5
4494 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

When our pugs were puppies, I could not BELIEVE the number of hot guys that would approach us on walks.  Some would play with the dogs, some would cuddle them, coo over them.  So playing with puppies in itself is not sexy, but seeing a hot guy let his guard down and get all goofy?  Hot.


We also used to do dive trips where the captain of the boat was gorgeous.  He looked like Tarzan and would spearfish our dinner some nights.  He was a really cool guy, too.  Basically everything he did was hot.  My friend and I had huge crushes on him – I think my dad even had a man crush on him.  lol.

Post # 6
671 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@missfrillycoat:  your second one reminds me of my husband and something he did 🙂

we were on our second date, before I’d even let him kiss me. we were both drinking and he starts talking about pulling hair being sexual. I laughed NAND told him the only thing that does is hurt. He slowly slid his hand up my neck, grabbed a hand full of hair and tugged, looking me in the eyes the whole time. Big good shock there, now I love it! 

it still took about four more dates before I let him kiss me 🙂

Post # 7
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Okay, I’ll play – there was this guy that I danced with at some party in college. Cute but not someone I’d drop my jaw over walking down the street. But on the dance floor? Oh. Dear. God. You couldn’t have fit a piece of paper between us and we’d dance in one way and just as I’d catch my breath, he’d change. He would breath on my neck but never actually tried to kiss me. Run his hand down my side, but not quite too far for me to make him stop. And everything was just so confident and assertive. It was incredibly hot. But it was just a couple dances and then I never saw him again.

Post # 10
602 posts
Busy bee

I’ve been backed into a wall on multiple occasions, and it still makes me flustered every time… especially if I just get a smug look and nothing else.

Post # 11
4494 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@missfrillycoat:  haha they sold the boat he went on, and we just don’t go as much anymore.

Post # 12
2449 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Grew a five o’clock shadow, put on a flannel shirt, did the laundry, and made pasta for dinner. I’m not even kidding.

Post # 15
800 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I went to my husband’s house after work one Friday when we were a few weeks into dating. I own a real estate business and was still on the phone with a client when I got there. I motioned that I needed his computer and whispered that it been a really long day as we walked into his office.  As I continued on the phone with this client, my guy got me a glass of iced tea, then sat on the floor in front of me, took off my shoes and put my feet in his lap. I got the sexiest foot rub while I continued working. Hot and sweet – one of the reasons he’s my husband now.

Post # 16
6951 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@missfrillycoat:  This is not necessarily “sexy” but it was for me. My ex hadn’t seen Good Will Hunting but I had and it really REALLY reminded me of him. He had trust issues because his dad was a douche. He was super smart but didn’t believe in himself. On and on. So one day I rented it and we watched it together. Afterwards he was just totally silent and walked outside to smoke. I followed him and just sat in silence for a while until he said…


Him: “What would you do if I did that?”

Me: “You mean just disappeared and somehow I knew it was to follow your passion?”

Him: “Yes.”

Me: “Probably the same as Ben Affleck. I’d be sad to lose you but happy you were doing what was right for your life.”

Him: “Well… I guess the metaphore doesn’t work because you’re the best friend and the girl I’d have to go after to be whole.”


Dude. I melted. He had me for a good two years on JUST that line. Other than my proposal, it’s the best compliment I’ve ever received.  


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