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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    Just wondering, when did you know what your wedding colors would be?  How did you come about making the decision?  I find more people are incorporating multiple colors (more than 3) - do you think it makes it more complicated?  How many colors are too many? 

     Just some random thoughts as I try to narrow them down.  ;)

     
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    alieliza    7/17/2010   Brooklyn, NY

    I think that color depends on a lot of things:

    Your favorite colors

    Your venue

    The kinds of flowers you like 

    The time of year you are marrying

    The theme/feel of the wedding you're going for 

    Even the colors your BMs look good in...

     

    My colors have changed many times throughout the wedding planning process (and I've still got a long way to go) but I've found that I'm always drawn to the same colors, I've just got to flush out the shades that are right for me. 

     

    You may find, too, that you are always drawn to a certain kind of color.

     

    Do you have anything in mind so far?

     

     

     
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    amandopolis      

    Definitely pick a venue first! You might be surprised at how much easier it is to choose colors that will work with a venue's appearance than starting from scratch.

     
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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    Thanks, alieliza!  Yes, I've thought about most of what you mentioned.  I've always wanted a shade of yellow (for llke 15 years!)...can you tell I've been dreaming about this day for a long~ time???  :) 

     Anyway, accompanying colors have changed in my mind a multiple times, but for now, I'm thinking: Grey, Yellow, and Orange accents.  I also like a bit of blue or green (Blue is my FH's favorite color, Green is mine when it comes to all things other than the wedding).  Here's a bit of glimpse into my inspirational color templates...

     
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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    Hm, here's another try at the color theme...

     In terms of venue - we are definitely thinking a destination where there will already be lots of green (trees/grass) and/or blue (ocean/sky)...I have a couple of posts asking for help on my search of the venue...but not sure how to link it here...

     Destination Location with a chapel, beach, fun, and history? - HELP!

    Destination location with a chapel AND a beach/mountain resort?

    Hope this works?...

     
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    alieliza    7/17/2010   Brooklyn, NY

    I personally really love the color palette of grey, aqua (one of my colors!) and yellow.  I think that color scheme is so lovely!

     

    If you are planning to do a beachy destination that will be really easy to work the colors you're talking about in!

     

     
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    JennyBryde    September 18, 2010   Moline, IL

    I thought I knew exactly what I wanted to have as my color palette, and now, a year later, I'm changing my mind.  It's stressful, especially since I've told my BMs to go ahead and pick out their dresses.  Oh well.  C'est la vie!  :)

     
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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    OK, anyone know why they might be rejecting my file upload?  It's only about 300Kb...is that still too big?  Really?

     
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    2dBride    October 6, 2009   Washington, DC.

    Ours just kind of evolved.  We started with ivory gowns.  Those were followed with an ivory chuppah, ivory pew bows, ivory table linens, etc.  Then we saw some gold centerpieces we really liked, so gold got to be our second color.  We asked my daughter to be MOH.  She has a wine-colored bridesmaid's dress she is wearing for another wedding.  Since there are no other female attendants, we didn't have to match her with anyone, so we said she could just wear the same dress.  Then when I started making signs for the reception, I used ivory and gold frames, but needed a dark background that the gold letters would show up on, so brown got added to the mix.  Thus, our colors kind of ended up being ivory, gold, wine, and brown.  Even now, it is not 100% consistent.  The ceremony will have more wine in it, and the reception more brown.  However, since the ceremony and luncheon are in MA, and are three days before the reception back in DC, and few people will be at both, we don't think this is a big deal.

     
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    WindyCityBride    September 25, 2010   Chicago, IL

    I have always wanted something different, and always wanted my bridesmaids to wear different colors.  That has evolved into my BMs all wearing black, and each one carrying a different color flower, and possibly wearing a different color shawl.

    If you've has a color in mind forever, then I say go with it.  Otherwise, I think considering the venue would be a great help in determining color.

     
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    Future Mrs M    1-11-11   Michigan

    My fiance tried saying he didn't care about any details of the wedding and when I told him I wanted our colors to be aqua, eggplant, and white and he was like no, i don't think so. I knew I wanted something that would be beachy, because we are getting married in the Cayman Islands, but could also be alright for winter colors. Pretty much FI and I only agreed on a couple colors so it was slim pickins'.

     
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    tilleyjewels       Southern Illinois, USA

    When hubby and I got married (my second) my daughters were 2 & 3 and I definitely wanted them to be a part of the ceremony.  I hadn't made a decision on colors yet until I found the most perfect dresses for the girls in light periwinkle blue with pink flowers embroidered on the top.  Was no question what to do after that--everything was periwinkle with pink accents. :)

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    I had a really hard time picking colors and didn't settle on them for several months. Eventually, I decided on blue for the bridesmaids dresses, but didn't decide on the shad until we actually picked them out.

    My finalized color list: indigo, blush pink and kraft as main colors; medium green, light blue, and light green and black as accent colors.

     
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    midwestelle    June 12, 2010   Des Moines, Iowa

    Go here and play around with colors.  It's fun and addictive!

    http://labs.ideeinc.com/

    p.s. the flickr set is what I use.

     
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    jesstagirl    February 20, 2010   Italy

    it took me FOREVER to come up with my colors. I knew what I wanted, but I kept second guessing myself. I finally came up with chocolate and pink because those are the ones that I originally thought of. Go with your gut!

     
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    mrspaetz    July 4 2009   Singapore / California

    i'm well-known for my monochrome style, so black/white was a defacto choice for us :) i decided to add a dash of red to spice things up.

    our theme's Travel, so i'm incorporating the theme too -- not necessarily adhereing to the colors because vintage maps are brown!

    my venue has a rather muted/neutral color scheme, so that helps too

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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    midwestelle - thanks for the website!  how fun!

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I knew forever when I got married I wanted a purple wedding.  Then I got engaged and was looking at swatches at work and found a teal/turqouise color that I fell in love with.  Out went purple and in came teal & chocolate brown.  It worked out really well because we are doing a beachy/starfish theme so it goes nice with the colors.

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    I just did a blog post on this! See it here: http://crosscountrywed.blogspot.com/2009/06/choosing-colors.html

    Basically I was totally not into having set colors.. but really they just sort of fell into place when factoring in my favorite inspiration photos, the season and the style dress im looking for!

     
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    missm    09-27-08   San Francisco

    Ours definitely evolved, starting with blue and brown, which fell into place when we purchased supplies for our DIY invites.  As we were thinking about centerpieces, we decided on low bowls stacked with lemons.  To add a little texture, we experimented with adding small flowers.  The fuscia flowers were a beautiful contrast to the yellow of the lemons.   From there, everything else fell into place.

    It was helpful to start with a base shade and let things take shape.  That way, if you change directions, your colors can change with you. :)

     
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    minneapolitan    11/7/2009   Minneapolis, MN

    We didn't really end up picking just two or three colors - definitely started out that way, but then as everything evolved, I didn't like having so many things be so matchy, and we decided, hey we'll just do stuff the way we like it.  So now I feel like it's a little more of a range, cranberry with some browns/yellows, mostly.  It's working out well for us because I don't feel as much pressure about a color scheme and my FI didn't really see the point of making things revolve around a couple specific colors. 

     
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    amymoidl    June 26, 2010   Kansas City, MO

    My favorite color is purple (not lilac, a rich purple) and I LOVE neutrals...like grey (my friends always comment that I never wear color) and so I knew I wanted Purple/Grey...but it is a summer wedding so I picked Bright Green as a third color to give everything some pop!  Turns out I am using more green than purple or grey!  I am going to have my BMs wear graphite dresses and we are going to have Bright bouquets :)

    I almost changed my colors to Purple/Yellow/Grey after I saw this pillow at target:

     

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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    amymoidl-

    That is one great pillow!!!  I want one, definitely.  I'm clear on Grey and yellow - I do feel like I need an accent color - right now, it's toss up between green or orange...but maybe purple?  Can't wait to see that pillow in life!

     
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    365    November 3, 2015   Ontario

    We chose ours at about 14.5 months out. And I just pointed out that I really liked a deep red wine colour and he said he liked that or navy, so we picked right there in Michaels looking at ribbons haha.

     
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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    Hm, can't find it on Target.com...do you know if it's still available?

     
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    eggman9091    January 16, 2010   South Florida

    I have been in love with periwinkle blue from as long as I can remember.  I would go through a periwinkle crayon and still have the majority of a box of untouched (or barely used) crayons.  From that came the accent color of celedon green, I just love the way they look together.  You want to pick something you are not going to get tired of looking at.  If I were you, I would go with the one you have wanted for 15 years (yellow), chances are you won't get tired of it now if you aren't already.  Let the rest of it just fall into place. This image from Martha's website has been an inspiration for me.  There are so many different colors here, but it all seems to work.  Good luck!

     

     

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    poodle    April 1, 2010   California / Planning Process in Chile

    The colors was the first thing we thought about and It was as easy as asking eachother what our favorite color was( Purple: Mine; Green: His), I dont think I'll have doubts about them but i was planning on adding another color kind of brownish, so all the wood we are incorporating looks better :)

    I've seen some great weddings with more than 3 colors, but i guess it all depends on how you work with them

     Good luck!

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    I thought of a color that is universally flattering for the BMs and the color of the flowers local to my DW. Navy and Fuschia!  But they can wear any blue, and the flowers can be any pink, but those are the "colors" if anyone asks.

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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    Haaah, the colours. When I first got engaged, I was happily looking at music and flowers and whatsuch, and a coworker asked me what my colours were, and I was all, durr? My first thought was something very stereotypically wedding-y: pearl, robin's egg blue, and blush pink. Definitely not me! I tried out the colour wheel at www.brides.com, but nothing caught my eye. Meanwhile, I didn't want to start really looking at anything else (dress, flowers, etc.) until I'd decided on my colours, and the "feel" of my wedding. Finally I just started looking at colours that would look good with fall, and I liked the combination of burgandy-gold-ivory-emerald (not my favourite colours, but I figured it would look good with all the leaves). Then, a month or so later, I stumbled across a tip that jewel tones looked good in late summer/fall, and I changed my scheme completely! =) Now my colours are ivory-emerald-topaz-sapphire (in those proportions). I'm really happy with how this is going to work!
     
    As for how many is too many, I don't think you can really have too many...as long as there's one really prominent colour, and the others are accent colours. =) For me, the predominant colour in our wedding is going to be ivory/white, and there'll be splashes of emerald and topaz, and accents in sapphire. For example, I'll wear an ivory lace dress, I'm going to wear a daisy chain in my hair (has white, yellow, and green in it), and carry a single blue rose with a blue or white ribbon around it.

     
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    First of all, I love your idea of Grey, Yellow, and Orange accents. That is so fun and something you don't see very often.

    My whole color choice was determined by two things: my fiance really wanted a beach wedding, so I wanted something that would look good in that setting and I found a hair clip that I really wanted to wear that was made from peacock feathers. So from that I decided on teal. I wasn't absolutely set on the second color until I found my dress, which clinched gold.

     

     

     
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    MaybeeBecca    August 22, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    Well, for us a lot of it had to do with location. We're getting married outdoors surrounded by trees so I wanted something that would look nice with that. I also wanted something that was easy to match because I planned to tell my bridesmaids to pick any dress that color, so different shades of it had to match. At first my FI wanted green, but that would have been too hard to match :-P, so we ended up deciding on brown as the main color. We were considering doing red or green or yellow accents, but when we decided on sunflowers for our main flower, that kind of settled it as a brown and yellow theme (my dress is ivory). So it was kind of a process as we decided on different details.

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    I've known since before I was engaged (not sure exactly when) that I wanted my main color to be red and I automatically paired white with it. Then we wanted to add another tropical color to the reception so we picked orange.

     
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    Grey56    10/10/09   RI

    Our colors were green and orange for about a week, then we booked our venue, and it was too formal-looking for such a vibrant color scheme.  My fav color is grey, so we started with that.  Then FMIL asked if FI's niece could be the FG, and FI wanted her to wear pink.  So we have grey and pink.  The grey will be dark, like pewter.  To contrast, the pink will be very light, almost cream.  Our venue really helped us with our color scheme.

     
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    HouseofJ    5/25/2010   longmont, co

    My colors are apple red, black, and ivory. I always wanted a pink wedding, but somehow got over that, probably because of a dress at davids bridal, that i never even ended up getting, lol. But I like that red, and red is possibly my favorite color. But then again I like that hot pink/orange combo, but don't think I can really pull that off.

    I somehow want to incorporate green, but of course it would look like christmas in may, and I'm not a fan of christmas.

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    carri38707    May 14, 2010   Chicago; Wedding @ Punta Cana

    It's interesting reading about how we all came to our colors!

    nathalietanya - thanks!

    More and more I think about it, I think I'm pretty much set at Yellow and Grey. Thinking of taking FI to a fabric/ribbon store and give him the choice of the third color that goes with Yellow and Grey. My guess is he'll hate the excercise, but also know he'll do it for me! :)

     

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