How can I be patient waiting for him to ask when I know he alread has the ring??

posted 3 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
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3928 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

IncredibleShrinkingBride:   Wait patiently.  Please don’t take away whatever surprise he has planned.  Let him have his moment!!  You will enjoy it all the more knowing you haven’t pushed for it!!  

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

IncredibleShrinkingBride:  ahh its so tough my FI and i customized my ring and when it was ready we had to both make sure it looked good. So as we were picking it up we looked at wedding bands for him and he found one that he loved so we bought it. Welll we went home and he wore his ring the entire time but had my ring too. So the next day we woke up and he was admiring his ring and i was complaining that i dont have a ring yet then he asked if i wanted to wear mine i said well yeah,  he then asked me to marry him  it was totally like us and it wasnt romantic but it was memorable in a funny unoficial way, it worked for us but either way it could have been more exciting if i wasnt nagging haha so be patient! 

Post # 4
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356 posts
Helper bee

 

IncredibleShrinkingBride:  I found out my FI had my ring because I accidently saw a picture of it on his phone- come to find out he had it a month before I found out! He was planning on doing it on vacation in June, or when we got our puppy in April. Once I knew he had it, I thought I’d be more patient- WRONG. I wanted to see it again and again! He knew I knew he had it, so he was impatient for me to have it as well. He asked me a week after I found out he had it. All I have to say is try and be patient, it SUCKS but he must have something special planned!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

All you can do is try and be patient. Don’t push him. If he’s bought the ring then you know it’s coming!! He will propose when he’s ready.

My SO has my ring too. He’s had it for about a month. I’m dying with anticipation too!!!

Post # 7
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222 posts
Helper bee

IncredibleShrinkingBride:  First of all, advanced congrats! This is so exciting! I’m actually in the same boat…I found out from my sister that my BF has already purchased the ring and since then it’s been very difficult to act as I do normally. I get tempted to lead into conversations that would, could, lead to that proposal. But I figure, it’s not just a proposal for me…it’s for the both of us. I’ve been with my guy for six years and we knew we were going to get married after a couple of months together. I figure, he’s been thinking about a proposal just as long as I have…and I know he would be devestated if his surprised was ruined. So I’ve gotta wait patiently. And so do you! Enjoy this moment of waiting…it’ll happen soon! Keep us posted!

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