How can I tactfully post this link?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1080 posts
Bumble bee

get your MOH to post it?

But do you really think your guests need to see this? Do you not think they’d behave?

Post # 4
62 posts
Worker bee

Yeah, if you post it, it won’t come off looking very good and chances are that if you have guests who are rude and can’t handle themselves in public, they won’t read the article anyway.  It will only serve to offend people who are well behaved and don’t need to be told how to act like adults.  99.9% of wedding guests don’t attend a wedding with the agenda to ruin the wedding for the bride and groom, I promise  🙂

Post # 5
6450 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why do you feel the need to post this? I think most people know how to handle themselves at weddings.

Post # 7
1287 posts
Bumble bee

wow, really? I’d be offended if a bride of a wedding I was going to be going to posted that.  I agree, people know how to act at a wedding.  Plus, I really don’t think you are going to go around monitoring all your guests to see if they are following the rules.  *eyroll*


Post # 9
4138 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would be so, so tempted to post it. But yeah, may come off … like you don’t think people know how to act which could offend some. That being said, in general people don’t know how to act. Sigh. 

Post # 10
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think it’s all common-sense stuff. I probably wouldn’t bother!

Post # 11
1287 posts
Bumble bee

I gave the article an *eyeroll*.  Not you.  I think a bunch of these article written on etiquette is to get brides all worked up about stupid stuff before their wedding and make them turn into bridezillas.  I try not to read stuff and use my common sense. 


Post # 13
11614 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t post this.  If I were a guest at your wedding, I would find it to be rude.  Giving adults a list of rules, that basically equate to common sense, is inappropriate.  Sorry.

Post # 14
11379 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

these rules all seem pretty obvious to me but you can always have a friend post instead.

Post # 15
8677 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Truthfully, if I was invited to a wedding (Or even not invited) and the bride posted something like this, it would cement in my mind that she wanted to micromanage her guests and be a bridezilla. I disagree with some of the bullet points in your article (Like wearing white & roast toasts and I think others are absolutely dumb as hell like spilling on the bride. Who goes to a wedding and goes Muwhaha! I’ll spill this coke on the bride’s chest! I mean, really?) and it really makes it seem like you’re treating your attendants and guests like children. If you can’t trust them enough to not act like barbarians (All of these are common sense.) then it’s simple to not invite them.


I would be very put off by a bride posting this, “It’s my wedding, read these rules!” and I would likely not go if I were invited.


Post # 16
2173 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I’d post it and say “Thank God none of my guests would behave like this!  I feel bad for the brides that have these guests!”

Obviously you’re getting married, so wedding articles are super interesting to you.  Nothing wrong with posting it on FaceBook.

Though I’m not sure any of your guests would actually read it.

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