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ok ill give small backround,im the youngest in my family(24).and recently got engaged to my bf of 8 yrs. my sister assumed she would be my maid of honor even though i had thought of my best friend first.my sister is not married and is the most irresponsible person i know. she has a long history of bad drug use which caused me to move out at 16. she has no job, does not drive and still does drugs.when i explained to her the responsibility that maid of honor has she replies with,"oh your having a real wedding"!!!!!!!!!!!!! i  had to bring up the fact that she did not show up to my highschool graduation,(by the way i was the first in my family to graduate high school) also my mom passed at 49 yrs old last year and i had to take care of all of the expenses and arangments by myself and of course my fiance was there for me she wasnt. when i was talking with her it was ten at night and she was "just waking up" o god i dont know what to do! she cries to me saying that she can handle it but moh is suppose to make my wedding easier not crazy stressfull. im also afraid she ruin my wedding by being high on drugs,of coarse im used to her behavior but his family is not!!!!! help please

@daydreamwanderer:well after i wrote this i called my sis because this weighed heavy on my heart,i told her that i was having two mohs and she started crying. saying how could i do this to her and that noone does that.people do in fact have two.but i kinda put my foot down.shes still not letting this go so we'll see.thank for the advice!

@cherryshake:thxis is great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!thanks guys this is what i needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!