- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I am originally from New York, and decided to follow my parents to North Carolina which is where I met my fiance. He is originally from Florida, and was here because of the military. He got out of the military and he stayed here to be with me. Now that we are getting married, I agreed to move to Florida after the wedding so he can go to school and live by his family. At first we agreed when he finished school we would move back to North carolina, and buy a house and have a family by my parents. Now he says he wants to stay in florida for good.
this caused a pretty big arguement for many reasons
1. if we stay in florida i feel we will never get to visit my family in NY (grandma, sister, niece, brother)
2. i told him i want live by my parents, because I am very very close with them
3. it is important to me to live by family, especially when we have kids, incase anything happens we have the help we need. Since his mom is a bad alcoholic, (she will seriously drink a beer as she is driving) I told him I would never trust our kids alone with his mother, and he agreed at first, but is now making a really big deal saying that i hate his mom and things like that, which i never said.
Who knows, I may change my mind in the future, but right now this is how I feel
so how did you and your SO decide this? is it wrong of me to be so angry that he is just changing his mind?