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How did you announce your engagement?

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    smiles4jo    November 13, 2012  

    My honey and I got engaged on Saturday while on vacation. We both called our parents and other close family to tell them of the engagement soon after. Everyone is thrilled and can't wait to see us when we get home this Saturday.

    I was planning on waiting till I got home to update my Facebook and stuff cause I know it will go crazy once I do. However, it sounds like the news is already spreading back home cause we are both starting to get emails of congratulations. Plus, some people that we were traveling with have posted pictures from our very impromptu engagement party that quite clearly show show bling.

    I would rather people find out from one of us, but we are kinda enjoying being on vacation in our little post-engagement bubble.

    So, what does everyone think? Is it ok to wait till I'm home to tell the masses? How di you announce your engagement?

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    We just posted it on facebook. You can wait until you get home if thats what you want to do =) it's your big moment share it how you want to.

     

    and CONGRATS! =D

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    I told those who I cared about before facebook, the rest found out through facebook.

     
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    bigcitybee    November 1, 2014   New York City

    Bump!

    I am not engaged to my SO yet so I don't have first hand experience, however, I say enjoy your time with your FI and announce it when you return home. You don't want to spend the remainder of your vaca on your phone/Facebook do you?? If it's really bugging you, fill in a few close friends and extended family members on the great news. Everyone can wait! CONGRATS!

     
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    MissTX    May 17, 2013   Texas

    If it was me...it would be facebook'ed ASAP! Hahaha that's just me though. We don't live in the same city as any of our friends or family (minus a few new friends we've made here) so I actually cannoooottttt wait to announce on FB :) I would of course personally tell the VIP's because I would feel insulted if I found out through fb and I was your best friend or something, lol. CONGRATS!!! AH!!! RING PICS NOWWWWW :D haha

     
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    Miss Orchard    September 8, 2012   Cambridge, MA

    We called our parents and I called my best friend. Then we made it "official"....we put it on Facebook!

     
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    fresitachulita    July 28, 2012   Houston

    I didn't do the facebook thing...I just didn't want it announced that way. We did word of mouth all the way so that no one would be offended if they had to hear about it on facebook. I changed my status to engaged about 3 weeks after the proposal, but deleted the "XXXX is now Engaged" posting, because I had gotten enough congradulations and attention at that point.

    If I could go back, I think I might have had an engagement party, and announced it that way, but we weren't in the position to do so at the time. 

     
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    misspeanut    December 10, 2011   Dallas, TX

    Well he proposed when we were with a group of our friends on a vacation in Mexico, so we limited our phone calls to immediate family only so we wouldn't waste money on international rates! Once we got home a few days later, we called our closer friends and then just changed our status on facebook...everyone else got the memo!

     
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    GroovyHippieChick    October 20, 2012   My Happy Place

    we told his parents and my brother in person.  Asked his parents to give us a few hours before calling everyone lol.  Called close friends/relatives that night.  Then posted it on Facebook a few days later

     
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    Blondee    August 24, 2012  

    We told our close friends and family first, then I posted it on Facebook.

     
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    FutureMsVW    August 4, 2012  

    THe same thing happened to us! My FI proposed while we were on vacation. We were the first to arrived, and he proposed. About 1.5 hours later his parents and sister were arriving, and the next day my mom was arrivin (yaay for extended family vacations!) I called my parents and best friends, and once everyone really close to me knew we put it on facebook. I wanted to be able to tell people instead of having someone else write it on my wall

     

    ps CONGRATS!

     
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    rebwana    July 13, 2012   Baltimore, MD

    We were engaged on a Friday night, and waited until the next day to tell anyone- we were planning on visiting my Mom that weekend, anyway, so we were able to tell her in person. I made a list of about 15 "VIPs" to call -other family, friends who would be in the wedding, and people who called me personally when they got engaged. Then on Monday we let Facebook tell everybody else.

     
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    Miss Beacon    April 13, 2013   Toronto

    we also, got engaged while out of the country on vacation. We decided that we would call our parents/ siblings. We waited for facebook status changes until we came back, and could do it together. It was cute watching him change his status to engaged. :)

     
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    Pollywog    July 13, 2013  

    I'm worries about this too. What our plan is to call my parents and ask them to give us a few hours before calling or doing anything Facebook related. Then he's going to email his family and we're going to email close friends. I fully expect that it'll be all over Facebook, but or phones will be off. Then when we get back to the states I'm going to post it with the vacation photos.

     
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    MrsWrangler    October 2, 2010   Florida

    Called family and best friends the day after - updated Facebook later :). We were across the country on a 7-day road trip and I couldn't wait to tell everyone n person! (And apparently, our families already knew it was happening anyway haha)

     

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