How did you combine finances?

posted 3 years ago in Money
Post # 2
Member
378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

We decided to combine finances as soon as we started living together. For us the decision was to open a new joint account at PNC (which I love) because they were offering some special that if you opened a new acct you got $100 or something. If it hadn’t been for that we would have just added him to my existing account. Things to consider are if you have automatic bill payments set up through one of the accounts it might be easier to leave it open and add the other person then change all the bill pays. Just make sure you make a list either way of all the things paid out of the one(s) you will close to ensure they get resetup with the new. Good luck!

Post # 3
Member
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Me and my FI are in the same position as you. We’re thinking we will open a new shared account, and gradually make it our main bank account over time.  

Post # 4
Member
8418 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

We merged accounts once we got our own place together.  Since I don’t work, I take care of handling all the finances (bills, savings, etc) so he just has to worry about work.  I think as long as you both communicate well, any financial arrangement can work.

Post # 5
Member
625 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

annb9:  We combined finances a couple of months after moving in together. It makes everything so much easier and we’re able to transfer more into savings this way too. He had his accounts with Wells Fargo and mine were with Regions. I had used Wells Fargo in the past (way back when they were Wachovia) and once Wells Fargo bought them out I wasn’t impressed so he closed his accounts and we added him to my checking and opened a saving account together. Regions is awesome, never had a problem with them!

Post # 6
Member
4797 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

annb9:  Where I am, you can’t just add someone to an account, so you may need to open one jointly anyway.

Post # 7
Member
8905 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

We each had individual checking and savings accounts at one or two banks, and individual credit cards.  We closed all our individual accounts and switched our direct deposits over to one joint checking and savings account (through Wells Fargo – we like them a lot).  We still have our individual credit cards but are in the process of figuring out which joint credit card we want; then we’ll close both our individual cards and just use the one credit card.  We also put money individually into our Roth IRAs and our 401k style retirement accounts at work.

Post # 8
Member
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

annb9:  My FI and I use Hungtington.  Not sure if you have them where you live, but I love them.  We both have separate checking accounts, a joint checking, and a joint savings.  We’ll probably just start to use our joint checking as our main account and order another debit card.

Post # 9
Member
292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

annb9: Maybe we’re odd but this is what happened: We had been together 2 and a half years, got engaged, and my parents gave us some money to start a joint account together. We picked a bank we both liked which happened to be his bank, I got a draft check from mine, closed my account, and put my money in our new joint account. We pay everything from there. Finito!

Post # 10
Member
1349 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

annb9:  When we got married, we both closed our accounts at other banks and opened one joint saving and one joint checking account at Chase.  We are really happy with them.  And having just one of each account makes things so easy!!

Post # 11
Member
7075 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

We just added his name to my account, transferred his money over and then closed his old one. My parents opened my account when I was a kid so I didn’t really want to start a fresh one. We use US Bank.

Post # 12
Member
1583 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

commenting to follow!

Post # 13
Member
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

We created a joint bank account when we bought our house. I also added him as a supplementary card holder on my awesome rewards visa and we use that for all of our joint expenses. We each still have our own personal accounts and cards, and get paid into those, but we have an auto transfer set up to each contribute X amount into the joint account per month. We’re pretty relaxed when it comes to sharing accounts and money. I mean, duh, we’re married now and we own a house. It’s all OUR money no matter which account it’s in. 

Post # 14
mscloverBee
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Fourth Presbyterian Church, Chicago, IL & Cheney Mansion, Oak Park, IL

Ugh. Interested to hear what others say. We divided up the bills, so our money was theoretically both of ours but we each only had access to our own accounts. We did add each other to credit cards right away. We opened a joint savings account (combining two accounts we had at the same bank because it was easier than adding one to the other) and recently added him to my checking account. He still pays most of the bills from his checking account (I only pay the mortgage) but has paid just a couple from mine to see if he likes it so we can decide if we’ll use that as our joint account. 

We’re a little older so we had a ridiculous number of cards and accounts and are still figuring out what to do. Eventually the plan is to have joint checking, savings and credit cards. He’ll keep a personal card and a business card (and maybe a personal account) and I’ll keep a personal card (maybe account?). We’re mostly lazy and hung up on details, so I’m really interested in the replies here.

Post # 15
Member
6073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

annb9:  I moved into H’s house so many of his household bills were already linked to his personal checking – cable, internet, phone, mortgage, gas, etc.  Once my own personal checking was no longer needed (I had a house sale, so waited for all the utils to be closed, etc), we just added me on to his existing account.  So now it’s a joint account.  I emptied my checking, closed it and moved the money to his checking (now our checking).  I also had my paycheck set up so it is desposited automatically.

We each have a debit card that comes from our joint checking.  We also have our own credit cards but they are automatically paid through our joint checking.

All the bills are automatcic.  Except for the utilities.  I need to do a Bill Pay every month for that (it’s not consistent and their auto system through the city costs $3 for every month to maintain!). 

It was very easy to combine.

Leave a comment


Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

Find Amazing Vendors