(Closed) How did you differentiate my MOH from Bridesmaids

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

My girls all picked different styles but the same color.  To differentiate my MOH from the BMs I had all the bridesmaids stick with the same satin fabric as each other (whatever styles they wanted, in that fabric and color).  Then the MOH chose a dress in the same color but a chiffon fabric.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel like I’m an outlier in the whole MOH looks different from the other girls. I am not doing anything to make her stand out as different. She is going to stand next to me in a place of honor at the ceremony and walk just before me in the processional. In my mind, that’s distinction enough. However, I do like your idea of different color orchids. Or perhaps you can have her wear pearls and the other girls do not. I have also seen all the bridesmaids wear their hair down and only the MOH wears it up (or vice versa).

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012 - The Chapel of the Sir Christopher Wren Building, 2007 Legacy Hall

All of my BMs wore different dresses, so I really wanted to differentiate my MOH. She wore a floral sash belt and her bouquet was slightly larger and different from the other BMs.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Mine had a slightly different dress, but that was totally by accident (they all went to the store separately and the other two liked the same dress while MOH liked a different one). I think her bouquet was ever-so-slightly bigger but not much.

I’m kind of with @MsMindle: in that there’s no need for her to REALLY look different. It will be obvious by her place in the processional, that you hand your bouquet to her, and that she gives a speech later.

A different color orchid would be a nice touch, though!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

People will already know she’s the MOH by virtue of the fact that she is the last one before the bride to walk in, she is standing closest to you, and her name is indicated as such in the program. You don’t have to visually differentiate her from the others. You can if you want to, but, when they’re already choosing their own dresses, it seems a bit like gilding the lily. Plus it puts you in the position of saying “I let you guys choose what you want to wear – but since you’re special, I’m going to impose something on you that I’m not asking of the rest.” …??

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I went for really subtle – my BM wore double stranded pearl necklaces with a rhinestone brooch on them custom made from a seller on Etsy.  My MOH’s necklace was instead a triple stranded pearl necklace with a different rhinestone brooch.  I’m sure nobody noticed, but it helped my MOH feel special.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I had her walk down the aisle last before me, hold my bouquet during the ceremony, and give the MoH toast Tongue Out

She’ll be differentiated by where she stands and what she does. You don’t really need to do anything else. If you want to, I’d give her a bigger bouquet or a different colored one. The hair flower thing is fine, too, but I wonder if anyone will notice.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

The bouquet for my MOH will be slightly bigger than the rest of my bridesmaids, with one additional type of flower that the other girls won’t have.

 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I let my bridesmaids pick their own dresses in chocolate brown chiffon, and my MOH has a cream sash while the others don’t.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I also didn’t really do much.  She stood next to me in the ceremony and gave a speech, and noted it in the program.  Her bouquet might have been slightly larger than the others, but that was about it.  My sister isn’t the type that would want to pull rank on the other girls though, so that may have been a factor.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

All my bridesmaids wore different dresses in the same latte color, the regular bridesmaids wore knee length and my MOH wore full length. 

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

All of my girls will be wearing the same dress which is eggplant with a charcoal sash. I will have a sash in my dress color with some sparkly beading or something (not sure yet) and she will have a smaller version of that on her sash while the others will be plain charcoal. The seamstress we spoke to said it would be easy to remove the beading from the white/ivory sash and sew it directly on the charcoal.

I will also be ordering a slightly larger bouquet for her.

 

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