- 5 years ago
ok..you guys probably saw my posts about me n my bf going out 4 years and how we living together alittle over a year. he always said 3 years for like a necklace and 5 years a ring. over the years he would be off and on about marriage/engagment even though he said 5 years, which always made me question him and hint about things because i was unsure what he wanted until i finally broke down year ago because he was teasing me about getting me a ring then saying oh im joking so when i flipped out and told him to shut up…he told me not to worry we will one day get married. Then our third year anniversary came HE told me two more years thats all i gotta wait for the ring.(i did not say a thing to him about rings).. but he still ws negative around family. i asked him recently when he was like “never getting married” why he says that sometimes and other times he is positive.. he said it was to throw me off so i won’t know when he will propose, it gotta be a surprise.
recently he has been bringing it up alot saying “when we get married/kids”, n im like yeah w.e, he even told me if we move to edmontin we can save for my ring….im like ooook. Our frd got recently engaged, well he going ring shopping with his gf so think he is alittle jealous….. because he bought it up randomly to his dad couple weeks out..out of the blue..and his dads like “ohh that nice, how long have u too been going out?” . i said “4 years”, my bf dad said “hurry up son, 4000 dollars” an. my bf like “naw more like 400-500”, so told him “w.e i wouldn’t care if it was plastic” and my bf like “ok ill get u gumball machine ring”..so im lile okw.e.
lol today at work i had someone ask if my ring was a wedding band, im like noo its just ring my bf gave me wayyyy back..month into relationship..he said didnt fit him…so today i told my bf another person thought i was married so he says “okk so don’t wear it on that finger if it bothers you” I immediately think Ohh shit to myself, he thinks im jealous and will hold off if he was planning to soon…he thinks im expecting proposal fuck!!!!!! so i said “nooo! i wasn’t annoyed, just thought it was funny,, i was like huhh what wedding ring?!”
what you think?! did i mess up by telling him about that person thinking i was married :(?! will he propose soooon!