(Closed) How did you make it through?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Not married yet but my fiance and I have discussed this. For us, nothing except for very very extreme circumstances, we will never even speak of splitting up. Not when we fight, not ever. We just both have it in our heads that divorce is not an option. He would have to start beating me for us to split up.

Post # 4
194 posts
Blushing bee

I would say that communication is the key to any marriage. We are all going to have good and bad times, up and downs. But if there is no communication, and there is always some kind of barrier that you can’t get across, then what is the point of getting married in the first place. We all have faults, but it is up to you to decide if getting married is worth it in the long run. The biggest problem with people on their way to divorce is not wanting to break down their pride rocks, to get to the point of why they fell in love in the first place, and work things out. If they could just see that there is that preemptive light at the end of the tunnel, that there is actually something there worth saving. 🙂 Just my insight.

Post # 6
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

We have been through very tough times over our 11.5 year relationship. The hardest were worked through with a councillor. The not so hard, were made better by putting yourself in the others shoes, and remembering the grass is never greener and that no one is perfect.

Post # 8
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@buggaboo6:  For me marriage is for life and I know sometimes things happen

yes, they do.  I’ll leave it at that.

Post # 10
772 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@buggaboo6:  During hard times, I ask myself – is it worth throwing this away?  Is there someone else  out there who is going to treat me better, love me deeper?  The answer has always been no so we keep on going.

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