How do I approach this?

posted 4 years ago in July 2014
Post # 3
Member
43300 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@maniccupcake:  It doesn’t have to be a confrontation. Honesty works just fine.

“Gran, I wanted to let you know that our plans are going to have to chnage for the wedding. I am so appreciative that you offered to host the wedding in your goregous yard, but my allergies have worsend considerably over last year. I just don’t see myself being able to breathe, much less smile and be happy, if we stick to our plan for an outdoor wedding. I hope you will understand and that we haven’t inconvenienced you too much.”

Post # 6
Member
310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@julies1949:  +1 Agree, tell the truth, no one could be upset when allergies come into play.

 

If you wanted you could have the bridal shower or an engagement party done there! (edit: oops just seen the other response saying engagement party.)

 

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