How do I ask my bridesmaid?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@nawella:  Hmm I totally understand your concerns. You seem like you are being very understanding about it, so that should take a lot of the pressure of the situation. You WANT her there, but you seem like you will be OK if she drops out.

I would probably send it over an email and just be as sincere and understanding as you can be. Let her know that either way your friendship will not be affected. Tell her you really want her there, but you understand some things have come up in her life etc. I would start it off like hey just wanted to check in on you and see how you are doing.

Post # 4
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858 posts
Busy bee

I would just email her and ask. You both know whats going on an dyou both talked about when you need to know whats up, fair for you to ask! Good luck!

Post # 5
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599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I know her webcam is broken, but you can voice chat over Skype, which may make things easier.

 

I would explain that you’re having do get your final numbers together and you need to know if she can be your bridesmaid.

Post # 6
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339 posts
Helper bee

I would be like hey hun OMG its 6 months before the wedding… I cant believe it. Im starting to get over whelmed with flowers and BM dresses and appointments etc. sigh. How are you? Have you figure out whether you will be able to come to the wedding? The  girls just ordered their dresses… There is a turn around time of x. I also have to nail down the beauticians soon. I would love nothing more than you to be there!!! Let me know by XYZ date if you will. If you are unable to get me the info or your dress in time no worries. I just want you to be at my big day and I’m sure we can incorporate you elsewhere! toodles. xoxo

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