(Closed) How Do I Cope With BM’s Horrible Wife?!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

From what it sounds like, you don’t really have to see her much, or talk to her, or hear her criticize your wedding.  From what it sounds like, she does not matter at all to you.  Yes, she’ll be there.  But just breathe and remind yourself that what you are doing matters to you and you don’t care what she thinks.  

She sounds like an utterly worthless person.  So why let what she says or does mean so much to you?  

Post # 4
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3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Just ignore her. If you can’t, remind yourself in your head that she is a horrible, miserable person who has to cut others down to make herself feel good about herself and seeks validation through a succession of men/engagements. That should do it.

Post # 5
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2205 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

She only makes herself look like a cow when she acts like that. Trust me, everyone will know she’s only there because you had to invite her. Don’t even think about her on your day, she’s not worth it.

How is your FI dealing with this? Aside from her being a crazy b*tch, does he ever talk to his BM about their friendship?

Post # 6
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626 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

your words are very strong and judging. You have only met her twice. In fact, there are many couples who’s relationship happened quickly. These words like “shes only 23” are just… mean on your part. You dont know her!!! Who are you to say She’s been engaged 3 times and is therefore a terrible human being? 

I understand you don’t like her but as it looks, you’re not really helping the situation, you’re not exactly trying to be accepting. 

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