Post # 1
So I need some advice, as I previously stated my fiancé and I called off/post poned the wedding a month before we were supposed to get married. Time line-we were supposed to get married October 23rd of this year and we called if off the first weekend of September. We called it off because we were having some financial difficulty and were not getting along because of the stress of it all. We are out from our financial burden and are doing very very well in our relationship so we have decided to reset the date for the first weekend of September of 2011. Now mind you for the wedding that was supposed to be this year obviously we had sent out invitations and were all good to go but then had to send out retractions.
Now my question is how do I do this properly. I mean inviting people and everything, do I send out formal invitations again and do it all over or do I just call and use word by mouth. Mind you this time its going to be a much smaller closer affair considering when we post poned it the first time truths came out about how certain people felt about us together and we really only want people at the wedding that want us to be together. Any advice?
Post # 3
I’m glad everything has turned around for you two!!! It’s shame that people had problems with the two of you as a couple, but it’s good to find out too. I’d send invitations out again, unless it’s small enough now, that your only making a few phone calls.
Post # 5
I would definitely resend invitations.
Post # 6
I agree with others – resend the invitations
Post # 7
Resend the invitations. Consider this a completely separate event (which in most every way it is!).
Post # 8
Well, you only have to send the invitations out 6 weeks before the wedding, so I’d resend them then 🙂
Post # 9
agreed – resend them, just b/c you rescheduled doesn’t make it any less of an important event and important events deserve invitations 🙂 good luck!!
Post # 10
Definitely resend… you could do a really cute invite and maybe do a play on words if you want to keep it lighthearted that you are getting married… for real! Unless its a really touchy subject then just do a regular invite.
Post # 11
Thanks for the advice I am just hoping for not so much awkwardness I guess. I am worried that people are going to be like oh for real this time or you going to call it off again haha.