How do I get excited about my wedding again?

posted 3 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
43 posts

Do what you and your fiancee want.  End.of.story.

Your in-laws, the rest of your family–as much as they are your family and you love them, you need to ultimately do what is right for the new family your are forming with your future husband. 

Almost every wedding and engagement will ruffle some feathers–a lot of people get really personal about ONE DAY.  Yes, it is a very special day, but what is it about in the end?  Forming a new family with this man.

I am so sorry that people are upset, but that is THEIR problem.  You will never be able to please everyone, and if it’s important to you to have the wedding earlier because of your FFIL’s Alzheimers, then do it.  If your FMIL doesn’t understand that after you explain it to her, then it’s just TOO BAD.  It sounds like you’ve already done things to try and appease her, but she’s still putting up a fight.

Don’t let anyone ruin your day.  You and future hubby figure out what you think is best and do that.  Take this time as an opportunity to start to estabilsh those boundaries with your future in-laws.

I hope that things get better for you!

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