How Do I Make the Best of My Wedding Blues?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
30315 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@wvrunner:  Aww sweetie! Big big hugs to you.  You know, it sounds to me like you could just use a day/week/weekend to yourself to do whatever you love to do.  Take a period of time to pamper yourself (and your FI too!), whether it be a spa day, a hike, or just going somewhere for a couple of days where you can shut yourself off from the world.  Take time off from all the stuff you have to think about, basically.  And then revisit when you’re ready. There’s nothing worse than feeling like you are obligated to take care of all these things when you feel down (believe me, I’ve been there).  It’s worth it to take time off! 🙂

Post # 4
Member
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I hope you are feeling a little better about things! Seems like you are having a rough time, even though your engagement should be a happy time in your life. 

I would suggest biting off little chunks of your to-do lists and conquering things one at a time. Also, try and not stress about the things beyond your control. Stressing over your BM or showers is only going to make you feel worse. Breathe. And remember what the wedding is truly about. 

Are you feeling any better about things since your post last week?? Your wedding must be pretty soon! 

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