How do I sleep? …

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Sleep on the couch? Stay with a friend? Get a hotel room? Move out? Get a divorce?

In all seriousness go see a therapist. It should help some.

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Get a new bed? Sleep in a hotel room or at a friend’s for now?

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Post # 4
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Worker bee

If you’ve made up your mind to stay and work on the relationship, then the current bed should go ASAP and replaced if financially possible. Like your hubby needs to have the current bed out of the house by the time you get home from work tomororw, and the two of you should have a Monday night “date” at the mattress store to get a new bed of your choosing. If the bed can’t be delivered until the weekend, then you should get to stay at a nearby luxury hotel drinking champagne until it’s installed and ready in your bedroom.

Hang in there during this difficult time. Don’t be afraid to ask your PCP for a referral to a good talk therapist if you need one.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I am sorry to hear that, he should replace that bed and you really need to visit a therapist

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

ITA, your husband needs to replace the bed & therapy is in order.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

…I don’t think the OP has a problem with the bed itself (unless I’m totally reading into it wrong).  I took the post to mean she didn’t know how she was going to sleep in the bed, with her husband, and everything that a marital bed is supposed to represent after he cheated.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’d have a problem with the actual physical bed itself if it were me.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

sassy411:  Sure, but she never actually said “he had sex with a woman in our bed” which is why I came to the conclusion I did.

If that is the case, I’d have a bon fire and invite the neighbors.

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