Post # 1
The title basically says it all I am currently in a LDR and I was talking to my SO, when he repeatedly did something that he KNOWS gives me headaches. Aaaand of course I got a headache and am now in a bit of a foul mood, which annoys me and makes him feel bad as well. I don’t WANT to be a moody cow, but sometimes I just feel like I cannot help it! And I don’t like it at all, nor do I like myself when I am like that. But HOW do I stop?
Post # 3
- Wedding: July 2014 - Prague
Hard to answer this, I don’t think your question is really apt for what you’re describing. Or else I’m unclear.
If your SO is doing something he knows makes you annoyed, why are you at fault for being annoyed? If you are talking about literal headaches… I also don’t see how/why you’re blaming yourself.
Finally: being annoyed for a reason, having a headache… neither of them is what I’d call “being moody.”
I think your SO needs to stop doing whatever it is that he’s been doing, you should treat yourself to a bath/massage/glass of wine/whatever and STOP BEING SO HARD ON YOURSELF!