- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
Hi bees, the worst happened; my ring fell of my bathroom counter and broke. I called my fiancé crying and told him what happened. He said to not worry because the ring was insured and if it broke that easily we are probably better off getting a new ring or choosing a stronger thicker setting. So now my fiancé spoke with our family jeweler who assures him she’ll have the ring fixed. Now here is the problem, I love my ring and it’s what I’ve always wanted but now I see it as this very fragile thing. Knowing it’s been broken I’m afraid of it happening again. To the point that I get anxiety about it. I rather get something stronger that I know won’t break as easy. But now my fiancé is saying they are just going to fix it. I told him I’ll be scared to wear and paranoid of it breaking again and losing the actual diamond. I also feel so weird about my engagement ring being something fixed that was once broken. I am scared to hurt his feelings because it is the ring he picked out for me. I also don’t want him to think I just don’t want the ring he gave me. What do I do? What do I say?